Why does it matter?  

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10/26/2005 3:47 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why does it matter?

The first woman I ever lived with was a prostitute so I don't care much about numbers (I have been with enough women to know that they're all built pretty much the same way and unique in their own way).

I also don't think that her sex life is any of my business (If I've chosen her to be a partner then I trust her not to hurt me).

I've NEVER had protected sex and I've never contracted any STD (I get checked every two years in order to renew my cosmetology license).

What difference does it make how many people someone has slept with? I guess if I were considering marriage I'd want to know if my partner intended to continue seeing men outside our relationship, although I'm not sure why or that it matters.

I say be yourself. IF you want to have sex with a thousand people do it, if you don't want to ever have sex again that's your choice. Don't get caught up in that game.

If someone you're interested seems overly interested in your sexual habits, dump them and move on. No one needs that sort of control freak in their life.

Is it important to you how many partners your lover has had?


10/27/2005 6:30 am

I decided to come by and say hello after reading your post in my journal, thank you for posting.
I personally do not find it any of my business how many people a current lover may have bedded prior to me but when a relationship I am very adamant regarding honesty and monogamy

papyrina 51F
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11/1/2005 1:28 pm

i don't care how many partners my mate has had so long as he wears condoms with me and hopefully with them

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