Rules of the Game  

360 posts
11/4/2005 12:10 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Rules of the Game

I'm sick and tired of men being blamed for lying about their marital status. If women would be honest about what they are looking for it might not be as prevelant. In reality if a married man wants to get laid he usually has to lie about being married, or hire a prostitute. that's just how the rules are structured and how the game is played.

Let me be frank, up front, in the real world I don't lie about being married or not. I don't bring it up unless the woman does, but I don't hide it either. On adult dating sites I sometimes fudge a bit depending on the traffic. However, when asked a direct question, I weigh how much I want to get in her pants before I answer.

If you watch what is going on, and the comments being made, it isn't hard to figure out whether or not the ladies (when they really are women) are interested in "married and looking" or not. If they are open to this idea, I'm honest; if not, I lie.

Why? A lot of the time women won't talk to you if they even think you might be suspected of possibly being married. Even when my true goal is to find new friends it seems women are not capable of having a friendship with a married man (although I do have many friends who are women).

If women really want men to be honest they should be more honest about whether they are looking for friends or phuque buddies. I have found that frequently they will say they can be friends but what they are really looking for is a lover or potential partner. Why can't women just be honest?

476 posts
11/8/2005 6:42 pm

Well no one lieks being lied to, including guys. If you ladies would be honest about your intentions we wouldn't have to lie.

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