My Comments from "Confessions of a Hot Wife"  

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7/18/2005 9:13 am

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My Comments from "Confessions of a Hot Wife"

The following was posted to spearfishhottie's blog but it pretty well sums up my thoughts this morning. You should check out her blog, some pretty interesting stuff.

One comment she made really got my attention; "This morning I'm thinking about the restraints we impose on ourselves and others. I'm thinking that's why many people explore swinging in its various aspects. We're all trying to break free of this so the human race can evolve."

I have said many times that jealousy is the root of all evil. I think that you have to reach a certain understanding of human nature to be able to accept the idea that your partner can enjoy being with someone else and still be totally committed to your relationship.

I think it goes back to the whole ownership concept. A lot of men all over the world, women too maybe, get their identity and self-worth from the things they own. They apply this idea to their personal relationships as well. "If I can't have you, no one else will either."

War is just an extension of this "I gotta own it" mentality. i.e. If you got it and I want it, I'm gonna come take it.

I have often heard people ask, "Why can't we all just get along?" I think the answer is all about ownership. Until people learn to get beyond this "It's MINE" attitude we are going to have conflict.

SO, in a very real way swinging is a step in the right direction. If you can't get your hands around the idea that it's okay to share your lover without it hurting you, you probably won't be able to get your hands around the idea that we could share our nations wealth without it doing us any harm.


spearfishhottie 51M/47F
98 posts
7/18/2005 2:29 pm

What this world needs is love sweet love.

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
7/18/2005 2:55 pm

I love hotties blog. She is a very interesting human.

476 posts
7/18/2005 10:08 pm

spearfishhottie - Hey girl thanks for posting. I really liked what I saw and I will be checking in from time to time to read your stuff. I'm flattered that you would take the time to check this out.

keithcancook - I have a feeling we are going to be seeing a lot of one another. Cool, so far you seem sentient. I look forward to hearing more from you.


bobber8 59M

1/30/2006 1:13 am

Hottie Is a true Hottie!!

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