First Day With A New Brain  

360 posts
7/18/2005 1:19 am

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First Day With A New Brain

Perhaps I should have said new head. Seems that it would have been more appropriate here.

So, this is my first day on AdultFriendFinder and I'm just trying to feel my way around. I read an article in the swingers section that sent me off to the bathroom for some autoerotic adventures. I'm also trying to figure out just what's what with IM, chat, etc. Anyone have any tips?

I've been using a different free site for a couple of months and have just run out of women to contact. It seems that many will respond via email but few have the courage, intelligence, where-with-all, to make it in person. The few that I have met in person were nothing like their profile. I'm gettting really tired of this, but I'm going to give this site a try.

What has your experience been like here? Do you like it? Are there a lot of flakes or fakes here? Anyone I should avoid? Anyone I should make a point of getting to know?

I was into the swinging scene several years ago and that sort of petered out when I got married. We have an open relationship, she knows I swing or sleep around, or however you want to describe it, and is okay with it. I think she does too, but I don't ask for particulars because I just don't think it's important. Our relationship is good, she seems satisfied, life continues.

I don't want any women to get the wrong idea, yes I like sex. Yes, I can sleep with whoever I choose. That doesn't mean I sleep with just anyone. Arousal starts between the ears. If your dumb as a post, look like you've been beaten with a bag full of nickles, or just don't know how to be polite, there ain't no way you're getting anywhere near my pecker. Forget about it.

So, that's about it for my first post. Give me your thoughts, your imagination, your industry, and send money.


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
7/18/2005 2:53 pm

When you browse through the blogs you will discover many success stories that began at this site. Of course the horror stories are also there so I suppose we are a reflection of society at large.

There is a Group that you can join that focuses mainly on blogging. Click on the Group link at the top (or bottom) of this page. Then enter the name of our group which is Bloggers of this friendly site Press a button to join. You can see many posts on blogging there as well as join in the chat room provided.

I have followed the swinging lifestyle in the past. The club in my area is wonderful. Fantastic people and no pressure.

476 posts
7/18/2005 10:10 pm

Thanks for the heads up. I'll check out the forum.


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