Can you create DESIRE?(from the lexus car commercial)  

rm_AnxiousInPa 50M
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5/18/2006 3:57 pm

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5/19/2006 10:36 am

Can you create DESIRE?(from the lexus car commercial)


When I first heard this commercial the first thought I had was AdultFriendFinder. Lexus I am sure wanted me to immediately think of the plush leather seats, which I admit are fun because of easy cleanup , and the navigation system taking me to far off places, but the only place I could think of was.. AdultFriendFinder.. Creating desire? Hmm.. Can it be done? I think I also went back to the first post I made two days ago which spoke to the "click". I think that the desire and the click are somewhat one and the same. Desire is only created when two people genuinely are attracted to each other. I know some of you are saying that you just want a good screw, but is that really true? I don't think so. Part of the issue with girl number 1 from the first post is that she feels all men are after is that. Well, the truth is .. that is what we THINK we want!!! Then we start to "click",sometimes faster than other times... What I think we really want is the closeness, the friendship, the understanding the passion and above all the INTIMACY we crave. On the first meeting, I in particular am a "either it clicks at first, or it doesn't" kind of guy, but some people have to grow into the relationship. When I meet someone, if the conversation doesn't flow, then I question whether or not its shyness, awkwardness, or just not working, so at that point its a decision.. go further? or just throw it away as "no click". Sometimes if I feel that feeling in my stomach and you ALL know that feeling.. then I may push forward and see if its just the shyness and awkwardness of the first meeting or not. Now don't start me on the first KISS, cause that is a subject all in itself!! But needless to say, if the first meeting is important and we click, if the first kiss doesn't curl my toes.. lol.. back to this subject.. So now we push through it, and maybe she is thinking the same thing? I am not exactly what she was expecting, conversation is strained, nothing in common, etc..So this is where I ask you.. Can you create desire? Can you make it happen? or does it just take on a life of its own? I truly believe that it can't be controlled, that it is destiny that takes it into her hands and molds and shapes it and says.. YEP .. I can't wait to see how this works.. the chemistry between these two is incredible!! This is one porn flick I can't wait to watch.. lol.. So tell me how you feel? Does it have to click immediately? or can you create that desire? mold it, grow it and let it become a full flower?

want2play926 45F

5/18/2006 4:28 pm

For me, it is either there or not. The only thing that can come from it not clicking at first is getting to know that person and becoming attracted to them that way. I have had that happen. A good friend became a boyfriend. It was a hot relationship and I thought it was due to knowing the person personally first and sexually second.


rm_AnxiousInPa 50M

5/18/2006 5:13 pm

I can see that.. I have had some relationships that started as "sibling" type relationships w2p and developed into something more.. BUT.. doesn't that go back to click? you were friends.. you clicked that way? so you are just taking it one step further? I had a great friend in college. SUCH a cutie.. we got along great. She fell into my category of not dating freshman even though I knew she was interested so we developed a friendship. She started dating a fraternity brother of mine. Everyone else knew that we "clicked" except really us.. lol.. Well, the rest I will leave for another post. Don't you love suspense?? Anyway, we still clicked..just on another level. We werent looking to date each other.. kind of like that relationship that developed. Can't wait to hear what everyone else has to say..


JBooToU 58F

5/19/2006 9:34 am

hi AnxiousinPA...of course, it's marketing genius because it's food for thought, just like desire. I think there are two kinds of desire...the kind that hits you like a ton of bricks that doesn't really require much (or any) thought and the kind that sneaks up on you after you've met someone who you realize you just keep thinking about and makes you wonder "what if..." And altho I do think you can allow something to simmer a bit when you first meet someone, I really don't think you can force it if after a few attempts to connect don't ignite any sparks.


rm_AnxiousInPa 50M

5/19/2006 10:36 am

True JBo. !!! Still comes down to.. Weren't your thinking of him/her in some way before the relationship materialized? LOL.. maybe there are just varying degrees of desire. It's there, you can't change that.. but it can be HOTTTT.. or WARM and incubating? lol..


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