Dear Men: Please Learn How to Read  

rm_Anachronous8 38F
5 posts
8/7/2005 8:52 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Dear Men: Please Learn How to Read

One of the more annoying facts of life on AdultFriendFinder if you're a girl looking to hook up with other girls is the fact that some men do not care.

I've put it on my profile in no less than three places in capital letters that I am NOT LOOKING FOR MEN. The first *line* of my profile states that I am not looking for men. Yet most of the time when I get new mail, its not from girls... its from men!

Am I missing something here?

Wanting to be friends is one thing -- I'll always accept people into my network. Wanting to hook up is a completely different thing. You know what that means to me? It means that that a guy did not even take the time to read the FIRST LINE of the profile before shooting off an e-mail and/or believes himself to be god's gift to women.

I've got a suggestion for you men that insist on e-mailing women who aren't looking for men: don't. It makes you look stupid and egotistical. And frankly, though I can't speak for all women who want women on here, that's part of the reason I'm NOT very attracted to men.

If you don't take the time to read, that tells me you're not going to take the time and effort to pay attention to me as a sexual partner. You're out for one thing and one thing only: to get off. I believe sex is a two way street and I'm not here to suck your cock and get you off. NO THANKS.

If you insist on writing a girl who isn't looking for a guy with the belief that you can "change her"... forget it. Ever consider that may be part of the reason she's NOT looking for a man. Guess what, you're not god's gift to women no matter what you might believe. GET OVER YOURSELF.

xx_44DD_xx 51F

8/7/2005 10:46 am

Of course they don't read hun!!

They look at the profile pics and that's it. Very frustrating, I know. Hang in there.

redswallow777 48M
6810 posts
8/7/2005 3:06 pm

One would wish that everyone would go thru some training before they could come in here. Read and Think before you act. Read and Think before you act.......

Short of the training or shock treatment you will have to put up with things being the way they are. But, best of luck finding what you need...

belovedrock2u 64M

8/8/2005 1:47 pm

Like the late SAM KINNISON would bellow : "Hey ,Lady! GO WHERE THERE AREN'T ANY MEN!!! AHH-HAH-HAH-HAHHHHHHH!!! " No offense, but it was so funny when HE said it. My opinion: don't let the bastards get you down. Raise the bar and thank the ones who clear it. Try and forgive the ones who don't. Peace.

licknclits4fun 43M/38F

12/6/2006 12:46 am

I am not egotistical, but I will say that I have had luck with the persistance you speak of hating. I contacted a female that said she was only interested in other females and that men were dogs, but I am one of those men women tell everything to (even though I am straight) and after she called me and told me that I should read profiles first, I quoted her profile, being impressed she met with me for starbucks, there she said I was different than most men in that I had her laughing and listened to what she had to say, eventually I was at her house, where her girlfriend and herself lived. I ended up giving them really hot oral sex and they both orgasmed off of my tongue, one even squirted. They said I was on the same skill level of women that know what they are doing.
This may be why men still try, because certain will give in depending on their communication skills, body looks, and health. Take care and I hope all improves for you.

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