Wow, glad I didn't sign up for a year  

rm_ALittleBad3 56M
15 posts
12/8/2005 6:53 pm

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Wow, glad I didn't sign up for a year

I sure am glad I didn’t join this site for a year because after you make your rounds talking with the first onslaught of women, things sure do die down to nothing… LOL

It only took me about two or three weeks to figure out that it doesn’t appear I’m going to find what I’m looking for on here. Now I only get on and look at the cams sometimes, just waiting for my subscription to run out. I guess a lot of people find what their looking for, it just hasn’t worked that way for me, oh well, I still had some fun and got to see a slightly different way that people look at things, so no regrets. I wish you all the best in finding what you’re looking for.

From what I can see, the man to woman ratio is so out of whack that most men don’t stand a chance of really making any meaningful contact with any women because the women are so over whelmed. And the reverse side of that I think ends up being that the women get totally full of them selves because of all the attention they receive and a lot of them kind of turn into big-headed bitches as a result… that’s a shame I think! From what I see the women on here on the streets wouldn’t get any more attention than the guys would, but because most men on here are sex starved, and they out number the women by about a 100 to 1, the women as a result can pick and choose and end up being a little bitch without having to worry about it because there’s always the next guy in line, no matter how nasty or rude they get. The only thing I can say is that I can’t imagine that adding anything positive to ones life in the real world. Don’t get me wrong, a lot of the men are no better and treat the women like a piece of shit too, I guess all I’m saying is that this crap is just not for me. I’m much more of the type of person who wants nice, respectful interactions and relationships, and that just seems hard to find on here, mainly due to the environment.

Of course, as always I may be full of shit, but that’s the way it looks to me at this point, and I just tell it like I see it… LOL

Anyway, for those of you that do find what you’re looking for on here, and it makes you happy, I’m glad for you, and in that case, I guess this site must serve a good purpose… and that must be the case because there are so many people on here, but I guess the reason for that has either escaped me… or maybe I’m closer to being right than I think, and there are also a lot of other dissatisfied people on here just like me, but they don’t say anything… who knows?

I think my subscription runs out in Jan, so I guess I’ll just be peaking in on some cams from time to time… maybe I’LL SEE YOU… lol

Good luck to all!


FriendlybutKinky 49M

12/8/2005 8:07 pm

Dude...if the battle is worth fighting, it should not matter the odds.

A lot of what you wrote resonated with me, and I have certainly had some of the experiences you are referring to, I just write them off as part of the insanity. I think of it like seeking the needle in the haystack.

Yeah...the guy ratio is ridiculous, but most of those guys are ridiculous, it is worth hanging in there if the type of woman you are looking for is the type of person who would be hanging out here. I am not sure what that type is myself, I keep finding all kinds here.

This will probably get edited out, but let me recommend a few different places you might find a different experience... all end in the usual .com and start with the three w's

match (more even ratio, and the 'sexualized' environment is not there.
plentyoffish (completely free)
e harmony (women looking for marriage though, are you prepared to deal with that?)

I wrote about some of my experiences on here in my blog, I hope you will take a look and see if any of them seem familiar to you. You might as well make the best of your experience here while you are at it, you seem like a decent fella, perhaps some smart woman will see through the insanity and find you?

Good luck...

HotTXpussy4U 48F

12/8/2005 8:18 pm

Well I hate that you haven't found what you were looking for. As I scanned through your profile, I liked all that you had to say. For me personnally the only obsticle I see - is the heavy smoking. And if that's your thing - I completely respect that decision.

Not all of us are bitchy - in fact the ones I have talked to seem really nice. I'm probably more cautious than most...and I've had a lot of changes recently in my life.

And if finding someone who is probably open to ideas of the sexual nature of a relationship...this seems to be the site for it. I just fear that everyone is out for instant gratification - and I take it slower than most men are willing to put into it - and that's their perogative to do so. I know what I want and what I'm willing to (wait if need be) do to find it.

Wish you well in your search for the other half that complete's you.

Smiles - HotTx

moonfire2u 69F
2602 posts
1/6/2006 9:47 am

When I put myself on this site, it was because I am a highly sexual person...and that is important in my relationship with someone. I thought this site was honest and straightforward more so than some of the other vanilla dating sites...but as time goes on...I don't think that is true...I think there is a lot of deception that goes on...I have also met several men who have been deceit...probably much like yourself.

I have been bombarded by men first, I was flattered...until I realized that it had more to do with them then you said they are all sex-starved...and I am just a recepticle...

I am sorry your experiences here haven't been what you have expected...I believe maybe the best thing for you to do is continue the blogs...that will distingish you from the pack...

kind thoughts,

PS...I wish you lived closer

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