Ok now what?  

rm_81Squishy 35M/30F
10 posts
11/12/2005 2:55 am

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Ok now what?

Ok we came accross another question yesterday that bothers us.

You spend tim eon the net emailing backwards and forwards, you meet, you have a bit of fun, you shag....Then you´re finished. Now what? Those really awkward moments after the shag. What do you do? Do you pack up and head home? Do you stay the night? do you stay a few hours and then go? What do you do post Shag?

Loosetooth 41M
1146 posts
11/12/2005 6:04 am

I suggest you play it by ear. I dunno whether youse two have had sex before but packing bags does not seem like a very likely thing to do in the post-coital moments. I much prefer to smoke a cigerette. Try to bear in mind that if you have got to the point where you have been rutting all night long with other people it is very likely that the inhibitions are going to be lowered enough to just lay around in an unawkward way. I doubt that you are going to stand up immediately and say 'thank you very much, that was very nice!' and head to the bathroom with yer clothes.

There are a few things you have to do before you worry about what happens after the shag though....here they are:
1. relax,
2. get a shag,
3. decide what to wear and where to meet and
4. decide whether you really want to do this. Is all this worrying about the details is not another way of reconsidering or just pre-game nerves.

rm_81Squishy 35M/30F
4 posts
11/12/2005 1:35 pm

Hehe, cool thanks fo rthe advice. Though these questions have been asked because we have been making jokes about all the embarassing or awkward moments that could come from this. We think the nervs are natural and what makes it so fun....

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