She was young, very young  

rm_6menu9 45M
17 posts
8/8/2006 9:35 pm

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She was young, very young

Okay guys, that got your attention. Why is it that an older man will go after young women?

Sure, they have a youthful sexy quality. They also seem to be more flirtatious. Is it because it makes us feel not as old as we really are if we can be with a younger woman? Is it because of social taboo that makes us want what we aren't supposed to have?

But older women have more to offer. Of course I have to mention experience. They know what they are doing (most of the time). They aren't as awkward. Most are more comfortable with themselves. They aren't as dependent upon you.

I am 35 years old. I can't take my eyes off of the 18 and 19 year old women, or as a friend of mine calls them, little girls. But I have given up on seriously chasing them. I have friends in their early 20s from a previous job and when I hang out with them, I am in contact with young women. I now find it more flattering than anything when one will flirt with with me. But that is really as far as I want it to go.

I met a close friend over a year ago, and when we first entered into a relationship, I wasn't sure about her being 10 years older than me, but I thought I would give it a shot. She has opened my eyes to age. I always used "age is nothing but a number" when a younger girl asked why I would show interest in her. My friend had, without knowing it, turned the tables on me. Age is nothing but a number. I've now found myself interested in women my age and even older.

Please feel free to share your experiences with partners younger or older than yourself. I am curious to how others feel on this topic.

rm_Icewomin 47F
610 posts
8/8/2006 10:31 pm

the first man i fucked was 30 years older than me. the first woman i fell in love with was 13 years older than me. i've recently gone through a period of infatuation with a man 13 years my junior...he wouldn't fuck me, and now i'm glad of it, as we are still friends, unlike the chicks he's banged since i met him. my ex-girlfriend is seven years older than i don't know where that puts me, lol.

people lie about their age on this website, and i'm a terrible judge of age, and so i make very little effort to do so. i prefer to think of sexual partners in terms of what we share rather than what separates us, like an age disparity. if we click, we click, no matter our age.

MsBehavinGal 49

8/8/2006 10:46 pm

I have always liked the "younger" males (so easily trainable!!) But recently I am taking to the gentlemen closer to my age or older and MAN I found out I have been missing out on how it felt to actually go at a slower pace .... I feel like I have died and gone to heaven.

I know a guy though (my brother's best friend.) Who recently broke up with his girlfriend and he is now in a relationship with a relatively younger female. (he's 40 she's 19) He is having a bit of a problem trying to keep up with her activities but is getting ALOT of high 5's from his friends wondering how he nailed someone so young. They are like treating him like a god now and he sure is rubbing it in.

As for myself? Yeah I still think of the young ones but most definately the more my aged or a little older has got my attention.

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