Chat room or cyber pick up bar???  

rm_67n20 56M
2 posts
6/9/2005 2:35 pm

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Chat room or cyber pick up bar???

Well I can't speak for others (duh), but it seems to me that the chat rooms are more like pick up bars than places to meet new people.
I've been on vacation, and have been spending allot of time this week lounging around and going in the chat rooms trying to meet new people in the lifestyle. The funny thing is it seems like the only reason anyone is in there (most of the time) is to "hook up". Trying to get someone to talk can be harder than pulling teeth from a rabid dog. Now recently, I was accused of treating a room I was in like a meat market. At first this pissed me off a bit and I put in my two cents in before leaving. Now that I have had some time to think about it I think he may be right(my bad). However I must add that in the time I have been going in the rooms just looking to chat I get more responses from the walls then the people in the room. Now I can totally understand this reaction from the ladies and couples in the room for obvious reasons. But when I've tried to talk to some of the men in the rooms I find out very quickly that they have one purpose and one purpose only. "PUSSY". If you sit back and reed you see all the same crap you see in a singles bar.(And I treat it like a meat market? Don't believe me? Just go into a room with a few people and no or only one lady in it, and try and say hello and get to know someone (not the girl) and see what happens. I have. So if I treated it as a meat market maybe that's because that was my perception of it. HELL makes me wonder if the ladies are right about us. Maybe we are in it just for a fuck. For what it's worth I'm still looking to make friend in the lifestyle, and to any of the ladies out there I may have offended with my off the wall way of saying things. You have my sincerest apologies. I will probably still go in the rooms but much wiser this time.


PS. If this strikes a nerve maybe you need to look in the mirror a little harder next time. Sorry but BS is just not my style

playfulwithyou33 56F
961 posts
6/9/2005 4:42 pm

You live in the wrong state dude, in the Chicagoland chatroom, many of our men are well mannered and kibitz on alot of subjects, often teasing and poking fun at each other's attempts to "score". Some of the people in there also care about one another's hightpoints in their day as well as their sorrows, and yes, there is still the "anybody wanna f**k" question that seems to be sprinkled in liberally in nearly every chatroom.

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