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Ex Wifes and stuff.
Ex Wifes and stuff.
This isnt easy for me to write and I would like your honesty.
My wife and I have seperated for six months and appart from some shit there isnt really any bad stuff between us. This will be a bit disjointed but forgive me please I'll try and get there in the end.
Right here we go:- Yesterday on my way home from work at 1.30pm I bumped into my ex wife and started talking. I asked her if she fancied lunch.
She said she was meeting a girlfriend but could meet me at 4 at a wee restaurant we used to go to. (so far no probs).
She met me at 4 with her friend and I felt obliged to invite her to the table as well.
We sat there with 1 bottle of wine between us and her friend didnt have the sense to bugger off, so at 5.15 we were finally on our own.
We went to a new fish restaurant for supper and it was really good.
We had another bottle of wine (so still only 2) and had a great time until ?????
WE went too our old bar and had a few more but not pissed or anything.
Now here I have to digress. We have a mutual friend who is a bit of a wanker, drink bummer and general tosser. Now everyone in the bar knows this but my ex likes him nonetheless.(c'est la vie).
I told my ex that sooner or later I had to go and sort the dogs out and whilst I was doing this they were having a secret conversation to meet later on.
Now money is not a problem to me really but by this time I had spent £100 and thought I had had a good time.
My ex left with me and then informed me that she was going for a drink with him (and heres the rub) could I give her the money to buy the drinks?
I gave her £20 and told her to ... off and never bother me again.
Was I right or was I being a pratt or what? I dont know. Surely you stay loyal in some way to the person thats been with you all day??
By the way when I say he is a tosser I really mean massive tosser.
I would really appreciate some comments here as I dont think I was in the wrong ( neither does most of the bar ) but you might feel different.
Anyway what do you think.
Take care PS The sea bass was brilliant.
8/11/2006 12:17 pm
You were far more patient than I would have been...|
Not that I would have expected sex, but I wouldn't expect to finance her tryst with some other jerk...
Once I got dumped by a girlfriend for another guy and a month later she came to my job and asked me for $100 for her electric bill. I asked her "what about Prince Charming?".. She said he was out of work and she was supporting him.. I told her that big dick of his that she left me for should be worth $100 to someone, so have him go stand on a street corner until he earns it... that was the last I ever saw of her...
Pleasing women in unbelievable ways for 45 years...
You could be next...
8/11/2006 1:11 pm
You were far to good. Yes your right you stay loyal to the person youspend the afternoon or day with. You were too much of a gentleman, and there is noway i would have given her the money to buy drinks for them. You are a man from other times, when courtesy is a must and the worst thing is that now a days some people take advantage. You are a pratt only because you are too kind. You did right to tell her not to contact you again ( u said it in another way lol), that is good coming from me lol. She had a cheek asking you that and i dont really understand where she could get the courage to do that.|
Never had sea bass b4, you need to tell me where that little restaurant is.
It's much better being a gentleman as you are than lowering yourself to other levels. Stay the way you are no matter what others do to you.
8/11/2006 4:44 pm
First off.. you called him every name but a git... I think you've done what you needed to do... in the end you have to look within yourself. you have to look at your face each morning... and I think you acted the gentleman. but... i think there would have to be huge changes and apologies on her part before I spent 100 britsh pounds sterling... brilliant sea bass or no... I'm all for giving second chances ect... but I'm not all for seeing those i know treated poorly either|
8/12/2006 10:59 am
Jeez, shs a bit much isnt she.|
Sorry hun but i think you should of told her that she needs to pay her own way & so does 'tosser'. Youre not a walking wallet.
Me thinks youre a softy. I know you dont want bad feeling between you & your wife but it appears shes abusing your good nature & hospitality.