Ex Wifes and stuff.  

rm_4it921 61M
954 posts
8/11/2006 11:26 am

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8/18/2006 4:11 pm

Ex Wifes and stuff.

This isnt easy for me to write and I would like your honesty.

My wife and I have seperated for six months and appart from some shit there isnt really any bad stuff between us. This will be a bit disjointed but forgive me please I'll try and get there in the end.

Right here we go:- Yesterday on my way home from work at 1.30pm I bumped into my ex wife and started talking. I asked her if she fancied lunch.
She said she was meeting a girlfriend but could meet me at 4 at a wee restaurant we used to go to. (so far no probs).

She met me at 4 with her friend and I felt obliged to invite her to the table as well.

We sat there with 1 bottle of wine between us and her friend didnt have the sense to bugger off, so at 5.15 we were finally on our own.
We went to a new fish restaurant for supper and it was really good.
We had another bottle of wine (so still only 2) and had a great time until ?????

WE went too our old bar and had a few more but not pissed or anything.

Now here I have to digress. We have a mutual friend who is a bit of a wanker, drink bummer and general tosser. Now everyone in the bar knows this but my ex likes him nonetheless.(c'est la vie).

I told my ex that sooner or later I had to go and sort the dogs out and whilst I was doing this they were having a secret conversation to meet later on.

Now money is not a problem to me really but by this time I had spent £100 and thought I had had a good time.

My ex left with me and then informed me that she was going for a drink with him (and heres the rub) could I give her the money to buy the drinks?

I gave her £20 and told her to ... off and never bother me again.

Was I right or was I being a pratt or what? I dont know. Surely you stay loyal in some way to the person thats been with you all day??

By the way when I say he is a tosser I really mean massive tosser.

I would really appreciate some comments here as I dont think I was in the wrong ( neither does most of the bar ) but you might feel different.

Anyway what do you think.

Take care PS The sea bass was brilliant.


Satyr48 68M
1778 posts
8/11/2006 12:17 pm

You were far more patient than I would have been...
Not that I would have expected sex, but I wouldn't expect to finance her tryst with some other jerk...

Once I got dumped by a girlfriend for another guy and a month later she came to my job and asked me for $100 for her electric bill. I asked her "what about Prince Charming?".. She said he was out of work and she was supporting him.. I told her that big dick of his that she left me for should be worth $100 to someone, so have him go stand on a street corner until he earns it... that was the last I ever saw of her...

Pleasing women in unbelievable ways for 45 years...
You could be next...

rm_4it921 replies on 8/11/2006 2:08 pm:
I wish to bollocks id thought of that


rm_bigmamma61 55F

8/11/2006 1:11 pm

You were far to good. Yes your right you stay loyal to the person youspend the afternoon or day with. You were too much of a gentleman, and there is noway i would have given her the money to buy drinks for them. You are a man from other times, when courtesy is a must and the worst thing is that now a days some people take advantage. You are a pratt only because you are too kind. You did right to tell her not to contact you again ( u said it in another way lol), that is good coming from me lol. She had a cheek asking you that and i dont really understand where she could get the courage to do that.
Never had sea bass b4, you need to tell me where that little restaurant is.
It's much better being a gentleman as you are than lowering yourself to other levels. Stay the way you are no matter what others do to you.
Laura xxxxxxxx

rm_4it921 replies on 8/11/2006 2:11 pm:
Thanks. I needed some geeing up. I was in the bar earlier today and the tosser couldnt even look me in the face.

I am sometimes too patient but I will never stoop to tosser level.

Lots of kisses xxxxxxxxxx

curiousinlorain7 59F

8/11/2006 4:44 pm

First off.. you called him every name but a git... I think you've done what you needed to do... in the end you have to look within yourself. you have to look at your face each morning... and I think you acted the gentleman. but... i think there would have to be huge changes and apologies on her part before I spent 100 britsh pounds sterling... brilliant sea bass or no... I'm all for giving second chances ect... but I'm not all for seeing those i know treated poorly either

rm_4it921 replies on 8/12/2006 1:08 am:
Thanks Im feeling better about by the minute thanks to comments like yours.

luv and kisses. xxx

phoenix639 49F

8/12/2006 10:59 am

Jeez, shs a bit much isnt she.

Sorry hun but i think you should of told her that she needs to pay her own way & so does 'tosser'. Youre not a walking wallet.

Me thinks youre a softy. I know you dont want bad feeling between you & your wife but it appears shes abusing your good nature & hospitality.

rm_4it921 replies on 8/12/2006 12:25 pm:
Its not the money its the total crap she put me through.

Thanks for youre support.

Massive luv and kisses. xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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