Keep it on the down low...  

rm_36specialk 48F
731 posts
12/11/2005 3:20 pm

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3/12/2006 4:56 pm

Keep it on the down low...

Alright, this is how it went down...(I always wanted to say that).

I told my ex-psycho, concerning the phone numbers that he stole from my phone, that if he ever called another friend of mine that I would personally come over and beat his ass. (I'll be bringing my baseball bat for that job). And after I made actual threats of a legal matter he quickly backed off and decided that it would be best if he saw things my way. You see, I've got him by the proverbial nuts when it comes to our children and he wouldn't stand a chance in hell in a courtroom against me.

As for my sweet Mr.X...Well, we broke up, and when he called me for our "good bye" conversation, he said he didn't want to end things on a bad note so he wanted to clear the air before we parted ways. So when I asked him if this would be the last time we would be talking he told me that he would call from time to time to check on me, but I couldn't take it. I told him that if we aren't going to be together that I need to break all ties and asked him to please not call me anymore because it would be like torture to talk to this man that I'm in love with but can't be with. He said OK, and then he called me the next day. Well, we decided that we would continue to see each other but that we wouldn't tell anyone. So, please, keep it on the down low shhhhh.

So, I went to see him last night. I hadn't seen him in what seems like forever. He wanted to go out, I wanted to stay in. We stayed in. He wants to meet my friends so I think I may bring a couple of them down to meet him next week, but only the ones that won't tell anyone that I'm still seeing him.

Now, if I can just get everything else back to normal I'll be alright. This has been the most drama filled week of my entire life I think. My water pump broke for my house, I bought a new one, but it was installed wrong so I haven't had any water at my house since Thursday. My daughter took some medication for an infection she has in her lungs and had an alergic reaction to the antibiotic, so I took her to the ER and they changed her antibiotic, well, she had an even worse reaction to the new antibiotic. We've been in the ER 3 days this week, but she's finally starting to feel a little better tonight. Now my car is making a funny sound so I'll have to get that checked out.

Come on 2006!!!!

HeardLankaMalls 55M
2925 posts
12/12/2005 8:12 am

Glad you got the ex straightened out K.

It also sounds like perseverence and sticking by your guns cleared up your situation .

Hope the rest of your trials and tribulations (the "dramas") all work out to happy endings

boundXXbyXXpain 29F

12/12/2005 6:09 pm

You are an incredible and amazingly strong person and I hope things continue to go your way! That is so awesome that you got your life back in your control. ROCK ON! LOL

AltumHunksUnite 53M

12/13/2005 10:04 am

Good luck with everything. I know things will get better.

Let me drive. I like the view

Mmphmm 45M
592 posts
12/14/2005 3:58 am

Come on 2006!!!! I'm with you on that.

Sorry I haven't been able to chat, it seems like it's been ages. XXX

DTduzDallas 50F

12/15/2005 5:55 am

Where are you? Hope everything's ok. **hugs** - DT

collectorbob111 52M

12/15/2005 8:25 pm

sounds like a tough road. i know my place to. when my exwife didn't get her way. she used the kids as a threat. i tried to get someone to do someting about the drugs and nut cases she was exposing them to. now she used them as a weapon and i don't get to see them. now as far as your kids go if you spend more time tending to them instead of pining over some asshloe that just wants a easy lay from you. your life will trun around. sorry to be so hard but you've put your whole life in the hand of a man. that may or may not love you. no one can fault you for wanting a man in your life. but he should be part of your life, not your life, your kids have that role. bob

rm_titsandtires 51M/41F
3656 posts
12/17/2005 7:31 am

**reads above twoo comments to bob**

*smiles at 36, "go get him, tiger"*

**hey bob, easy lay? I've been trying to have shoe phone sex with this hottie for a month now, and I'm stuck here with all these waffles**

so this is how it went down, huh?

collectorbob111 52M

12/18/2005 7:41 pm

well i'm sorry i up set you with my comments. i was picking up on someting that must have not been there. like the power you have over your ex. or the its all or nothing with sweet mr.X sounds like more than just a part in your life to me. then there the big secret don't tell any one were togetheir. i'm sure i must have misunderstood this. your a strong hard working lovely lady. so were's the pride. mr.x should be shouting it from the roof tops. as for the comment about an easy lay. i was commenting in the case of were you love this man and he and only mr.x would not have to work to hard for you. at last i assume nothing, just going by what i read. i do not know you and i most likely have it all wrong. but based on what i read i just wanted you to think about it. i would want to be wrong and have you hate me. then be right and say nothing. i do wish you and your family all the best. bob

collectorbob111 52M

12/18/2005 8:35 pm

i agree. you and yours need to stay safe. bob

rm_titsandtires 51M/41F
3656 posts
12/19/2005 1:03 am

will you two just kiss and make up already... geesh! get a room!

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