Did you know the earth spins on axles??  

rm_36specialk 48F
731 posts
11/4/2005 2:03 pm

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Did you know the earth spins on axles??

I need to know...

A friend of mine and I were talking yesterday and now it's starting to bother me. She was telling me of a neighbor of hers that is recently divorced and was looking to my friend for advice. My friend and I are both single very independant women. We would both love to have a man in our lives, however for one reason or another haven't found exactly what we're looking for.

Anyway...her neighbor it seems doesn't know how to do ANY household repairs and won't attempt. She doesn't work because her ex pays her child support and alamony and her "uncle" also gives her money to live on.

I know, I know, you're gonna tell me that I've bitched about all of this kind of stuff before. But now that I look around I see more and more women that are able to live off of their "whatever it is that provokes a man to give them money".

And another thing...I used to think that this "dumb blonde" thing was just a joke, not anymore. I have 2 or 3 women that work for me that I am having a hard time trying to figure out how they got this far in life. If I try to discuss any subject other than shopping or makeup or taking the kids to the park they just can't follow along. Are these the women that can live off of their "whatever"? I don't know.

So men,please tell me...what is it that will make a man support a woman that can't support herself? In my mind I would think that a man would want a woman that has ambition and a goal and at least the social skills to be able to have a conversation about current events. Possibly a woman with an opinion, even if it isn't the opinion that you share, at least an opinion of their own. But everyday I see women that have boyfriends that gladly pay for hair, nails, makeup, shopping sprees, whatever their hearts desire. Yet these same women can't tell me who faught the civil war or what the earth rotates on. Would you be with a woman merely for her looks?

You know, I told a friend of mine (male) that I was going to Disney World and he asked if the new boyfriend was paying. I was surprised. Why would anyone think that a new boyfriend would pay for such a trip? He told me that I've got "game" and that I should work it. Hmmmm...I wonder, could I actually get a guy to pay for stuff for me?? I've never tried it before.

Do I have game? See...now my brain is going off in an entirely different direction.

rm_RxSUGAR 60M
102 posts
11/4/2005 5:32 pm

Let the Doc. explain something here.I will say this as sweet as I can possibly say it.If you are serious,being real in this post.YOU,YES YOU,could find guys like that EVERYWHERE,YES EVERYWHERE,if you would smile,( there I go again ),be nice and as sweet as your natural looks display that you are.If you just want to complain about those people,I don't blame you,they probably deserve it but you make it sound as though you have not been," lucky at love" as the song says and,,,I just can't buy that unless,,,you maybe forgetting the sugar that everyone needs.Those women are providing something more than just sex if those guys are hanging around for long.And don't forget,many of them maybe,somewhat desperate and thus the support.We all need somebody to love us,even if it may cost something,,,you know?

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