Loser or Loner?  

rm_2Sexy4UinPA 45F/37F
27 posts
4/25/2006 7:45 am
Loser or Loner?

Having chatted with many of you in AdultFriendFinder Land, we have come to find out that there are many strange people (men, especially) on this site.

One, in particular, has caught our attention recently. He is from Southern NJ, and we will call him "Mr. Ready." At first, he seemed like a very nice man. His profile photo makes him look older than his professed 48, but we accepted his "invitation" to join his Friend's Network, nonetheless.

Upon joining his "Network," Mr. Ready sent us an e-mail with a photo attached - the photo showed 2 men standing in front of a row of fish! There was no explanation or any indication of the identities of the two men in the photo. If one of them was Mr. Ready, then he looked much different than he did in his profile photo. We inquired about the photo, but got no response. In fact, we never heard from Mr. Ready again!

Here is where the story gets really WEIRD! We have found out that Mr. Ready has written an e-mail to another member of our "Friend's Network." He wrote the note to a MALE friend of ours who had written a testimonial for us. Mr. Ready told our friend that he (our friend) was "full of shit," and that he (Mr. Ready) had been told by a couple of ladies that our friend was a "Real Jackass!"

What is wrong with some people? Is this "Mr. Ready" a LOSER or a LONER or BOTH? Has anyone else had a similar experience?

L & D

bob24533 62M

4/25/2006 4:47 pm

Don't get discouraged, keep looking, you will find what you want. I
have arranged meetings with people only to have them not show up, plus people don't respond to e-mails. But hang in there, you will get
what you want eventually.

biology 38M  
286 posts
4/28/2006 8:42 am

there are just some messed up people out there that want to collect friends...and never actually ever talk to thier "friends". even if you never meet some of your networked friends, you should still try to chat with them. this guy is just a collector.

i mean hell i have a lot of networked friends, BUT i try to at least talk to them.....

ok thats way off topic, so...

i think mr. ready is just a pic collecting loser....

RockPebble 69M
2476 posts
5/22/2006 8:16 am

Just found your blog. Welcome to blogland. It does seem to take some time to find like minded people. I find that blogging helps you get a sense of what people are really like. Thae profile tells you what they want you to know, their comments usually reveal more about how the think, if they think.

BTW, very nice picture but it only shows one of you.

CrispCrewsCirca 48M
1 post
5/23/2006 10:26 pm

Sadly, there are just way too many people (of both genders) who haven't enough of a life away from their keyboard. You sound sane enough to filter out the noise, so don't let it discourage you. There's plenty of normal, sane, (almost) charming people out here. Give it time.

Great pics...

-- M

rm_Yknotme_69 52M
206 posts
5/29/2006 7:54 pm

Considering the forum that this is, I imagine you may come across quite a bit of knuckleheads from both genders..

travelmannyc98 46M

7/31/2006 11:03 am

Knucklehead sums it up very well - and btw, knucklehead is a very underutilized word in our society - I hope it makes a comeback as part of our every day vocabulary. Hopefully these two extaordinary woman are now finding more real men on this site.

havesomefun1985 31M

4/2/2007 10:42 am

With your kind indulgence for blog-mailing, you look and sound great; would love to learn more about you. Because guest members cannot read your profile, nor write but when they do contact info is screened, how about writing directly ANNAPDAD at ISP where You Are Here Only Once & attaching pics & profile?

rm_kittykat306 43F
1 post
4/10/2007 11:53 am

god im in luv

itsall4you20053 56M/47F

4/24/2007 7:20 pm

We have found very rude things being said about individuals on this site by others that have their own motivation to spread gossip, if they can't go directly to the individual then it isn't worth listening to is it!

SebastianSays 56M

4/26/2007 7:24 pm

I would love to shoot you gals FREE!!! I am a 29 year veteran pro photog/ videog/ certified steadicam operator/ digital artist-painter. See attached digital painting.

Write me please! I can not email you. Images are all I am concerned with!


nightnurselpn 46F

10/8/2007 3:54 pm

i too had a similar experience with weird men on the site. they portray themselves as single and when you actually do meet them they have the tell tale ring on their finger where the band should be,then they brag to ppl in your network how they "did" u,lmao. when you contact them about this they don't answer your email,or quite stupidly invent a "new" profile and try to contact you again,only thru stupidity they use the same pictures.

purtywildcountry 56M/57F  
3 posts
8/18/2015 5:00 pm

I say both. And I left you a comment on your other post. {=}

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