why do guys not listen?  

rm_1teeniebutt 35F
9 posts
3/10/2005 11:17 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

why do guys not listen?

I am very confused as to why guys cannot accept what it is that I am looking for. I am part of a couple and would never even consider cheating on my man, I am looking for females and couples for the both of us.

But the guys I chat with or that send me mail or IM me, always seem to think that I should dismiss my ideals, and meet with them, they always seem to think that they are the one that would convince me that my man does not hold a candle to them.

Why is it that the men here cannot just accept me for what and who I am, I am not interested in meeting with guys, but they just do not seem to get that.

Elysium7 52M/44F

3/10/2005 1:52 pm

Same exact thing happens to me. Lisa

rm_bluegenes51 56M
245 posts
3/10/2005 2:07 pm

MIGHT help if you were listed as a couple and not a female...just a thought

freakyrican00 35F

3/10/2005 3:29 pm

so true so true- check out my blog- its all the same....

Cathy_Dave 54M/54F

3/12/2005 5:43 am

We have the same problem....guys are guys....they don't read the profile.....the seem to think they are the one that will be better than hubby....lol....not possible....lol. They just think with their little head rather than their big one....oh well....we got used to it.....Cathy

sensualcouplemn 49M/54F

7/2/2005 9:11 am

well usally it is out of lack of blood to the brain for us I think and as for you two we would love to chat and see if we click

rm_dreamer96_1 39M

4/16/2006 1:54 am

Why don't you just block all messages from profiles that don't match the description that you are looking for? It would take 10 seconds and single males would never be able to message you again.

And like bluegenes51 said, if you are looking as a couple, you should create a profile for a couple and not just a female. Doing these things would save you a lot time.

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