What I hate about Me...  

rm_1spiderskiss 46M
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8/4/2006 12:53 am

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8/5/2006 11:07 pm

What I hate about Me...

The question was posed by Amber recently: Are you Naughty or are you Nice

I would be lying if I didn’t admit to falling into the “Nice” category. It infiltrates every aspect of my being from my nice home to my nice job to my nice car to my nice personality. The problem is, nice has never served me. In fact, I hate nice. I hate being nice, I hate showing up on time, I hate being helpful, I hate paying for drinks and dinner, I hate driving friends to the airport, I hate the predictability of being nice.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m no pushover. I’m not being walked over to satisfy other people’s need but when it comes to naughty or nice ‒ I’m nice.

But what to do? As I replied to Amber, it takes more than a motorcycle and a tattoo to be not nice. But where does it come from? Where is my inner asshole? I’ve always been the guy that you take home to mom and we all know how that turned out.

It’s time for a change and I need your help. Tell me how do you make the transition from nice to naughty?

Tiger_Rose40s 54F

8/4/2006 1:47 am

You could start by saying "No" sometimes when someone asks you for a favor and you really don't want to do it. And don't make up an excuse, just tell the truth, "I really don't want to do that."

People take it better than you think, and most people are ok with you saying no to a favor if you are going to be resentful or bothered by doing it.

Telling people what you really think about things is another good way to stop being nice all the time.

rm_1spiderskiss replies on 8/5/2006 11:07 pm:
"No" is my new favorite word (right after "snog")

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