The Average Joe?  

rm_1sexyroo 56M/56F
103 posts
5/11/2006 4:34 pm

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The Average Joe?

As the wife of a retired military member, I feel there is nothing average about any member of our Armed Forces - but maybe that's just because I'm biased...

The average age of the military man is 19 years. He is a short haired, tight-muscled kid who, under normal circumstances is considered by society as half man, half boy. Not yet dry behind the ears, not old enough to buy a beer, but old enough to die for his country. He never really cared much for work and he would rather wax his own car than wash his father's; but he has never collected unemployment either.

He's a recent High School graduate; he was probably an average student, pursued some form of sport activities, drives a ten year old jalopy, and has a steady girlfriend that either broke up with him when he left, or swears to be waiting when he returns from half a world away.

He listens to rock and roll or hip-hop or or jazz or swing and 155mm howitzer.

He is 10 or 15 pounds lighter now than when he was at home because he is working or fighting from before dawn to well after dusk.

He has trouble spelling, thus letter writing is a pain for him, but he can field strip a rifle in 30 seconds and reassemble it in less time in the dark.

He can recite to you the nomenclature of a machine gun or grenade launcher and use either one effectively if he must. He digs foxholes and latrines and can apply first aid like a professional.

He can march until he is told to stop or stop until he is told to march. He obeys orders instantly and without hesitation, but he is not without spirit or individual dignity. He is self-sufficient.

He has two sets of fatigues: he washes one and wears the other. He keeps his canteens full and his feet dry. He sometimes forgets to brush his teeth, but never to clean his rifle.

He can cook his own meals, mend his own clothes, and fix his own hurts. If you're thirsty, he'll share his water with you; if you are hungry, his food. He'll even split his ammunition with you in the midst of battle when you run low.

He has learned to use his hands like weapons and weapons like they were his hands. He can save your life - or take it, because that is his job.
He will often do twice the work of a civilian,
draw half the pay and still find ironic humor in it all.

He has seen more suffering and death then he should have in his short lifetime! He has stood atop mountains of dead bodies, and helped to create them. He has wept in public and in private, for friends who have fallen in combat and is unashamed.

He feels every note of the National Anthem vibrate through his body while at rigid attention, while tempering the burning desire to
'square-away' those around him who haven't bothered to stand, remove their hat, or even stop talking. In an odd twist, day in and day out, far from home, he defends their right to be disrespectful. Just as did his Father, Grandfather, and Great-grandfather, he is paying the price for our freedom. Beardless or not, he is not a boy.

He is the American or Canadian Fighting Man
that has kept this country free for over 200 years. He has asked nothing in return, except our friendship and understanding.
Remember him, always, for he has earned our respect and admiration with his blood.

And now we even have woman over there in danger,
doing their part in this tradition of going to War when our nation calls us to do so.

As you go to bed tonight, remember this shot..

A short lull, a little shade and a picture of loved ones in their helmets.

Please stop for a moment and say a prayer
for our ground troops in Afghanistan, sailors on ships, and airmen in the air, and for those in Iraq.








sideline1968 48F

5/11/2006 4:47 pm

This Soldier remembers well, things done and events endured. Prayers are always with those who still serve.


blondietickler 43F
295 posts
5/11/2006 4:48 pm

amen


rm_dfghs2 50M

5/11/2006 4:51 pm

Oh, man. I don't know if you wrote that or just copied that and passed it on, but thank you. That really nails it. This November, if I had stayed in, I would be retiring. So I've been thinking about our men and women in the service lately. Did you ever stop to think about that saying "in the service"? Most people don't. Try to remember this the next time you here that phrase- They truly are in "the service" of you and I, and this Country (which, by the way, is too often taken for granted).
Freedom is NOT free.
DFGHS


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