Some call it "bait" & it catches the fish, but it's still just a worm...  

rm_14deRoad 55F
9 posts
9/4/2006 9:47 pm

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Some call it "bait" & it catches the fish, but it's still just a worm...

So, I hadn't checked in on this site for a while & wondered who was roaming in the cyberspace of AdultFriendFinder these days. To "Search" I went & filled out the basic criteria; age range, sexual interests/preferances, a couple of other general criteria, & a zip code to narrow it down geographically - then "submit" & SHAZAM! - a list of 30 male profiles for a 1st page filled my screen within 5 seconds fitting this criteria... Now, here's where I have an issue.
Out of the 30 profiles on this page, 19 or 2/3 of them were close-ups of a cock. Admitted, some were nice , however, most were average. And then there were those that were pretty damn pathetic - what on earth was that guy thinking when he made his wee "wee wee" the item of his anatomy to offer as "bait"?
To provide a fully comprehensive report on the remainder of those profiles, 2 were of butts, 6 were various torso shots, most of which were ripped/6-pak abbers, but their attempted mimics of forced Mr. Universe poses just didn't cut it for some reason. There was one "from the neck up" mug shot (perhaps should have just gone for the cock shot close-up for a quicker, painless death??), & memory fails me on the last 2 posted main pics...
Now please don't misunderstand me. I LOVE cock & it doesn't always have to be the Mr. Ed type. But shouldn't we all be "soliciting" our best features in our efforts to attract our target audiences?
I have a straight-forward spew in my profile advising guys who wanna initiate a contact - DON'T expect an enthusiastic response (& possibly none at all)if this is all they offer for judging physical attraction. And still, the close-up-cock-shot-only emails roll in daily. My final thought... do I stand my ground & come off the prude I realize I sound like, or am I missing something here & do the 19 of 30 dudes actually get action here???


TheRealThing655 48F
9558 posts
9/4/2006 10:17 pm

I agree...I just don't get it how men think a close up cock shot is just going to get them in contact with someone...I think most women need to see something else too...I don't think you're missing anything! Stand your ground and demand respect!


rm_James20910 52M
316 posts
9/4/2006 10:18 pm

Naw...I say ignore them and run off with me


rm_BloeJoe 49M

9/4/2006 10:33 pm

Oh great... I would be one of the BUTT pics!


Scottyboy2087 49M
85 posts
9/5/2006 4:22 am

Stand your ground, as a man looking at the woman’s profiles on here I get bored looking at their genitals. I am more interested in the pics that tease and leave something to the imagination. Keep blogging and eventually you will find some likeminded souls.


aniceplaytoy 49M
4 posts
9/5/2006 12:29 pm

As Jim Morrison would put it "People Are Strange." But may I add you look great as the cowgirl and as for the Lita Ford look. You'll get two thumbs up from this critic. You are one for the books...


rm_Calisoul 42M

9/29/2006 8:22 pm

Now that was a VERY funny post... FINALLY someone REAL.
Girl, you contine to tell it like it is....and you will find what you are seeking. Smiles


warmNpleasing 54M

11/3/2006 10:43 pm

I think you are most likely voicing the opinion that most women here have. Actually, I love it that most guys have a cock shot as their main photo - the quality women will just ignore them! LOL

I have a cock shot up there on my profile, but the photo is not the main one, so to look at it in other than a tiny thumbnail, you have to click it or look at all the photos. So it's available if you are interested, but not "in your face".

I also also love your profile - a very intelligent woman is depicted. Which gets my most erogenous zone - my brain - very aroused!

I love the cowgirl photo too. And the full nude of you is very hot. Thanks for not having your main photo as a cunt shot. I hate that too! IMO, there are few pretty pussies. And I want to see the entire woman to see if I am interested. All the ones I am interested have a pussy, after all!


rm_rc88332000 54M

1/4/2007 5:54 pm

Well your pic's and blog are a site for soar "eye's" dear. I agree and have heard alot of women make these very same comments.My thought on it is this so if a woman on here did agree to meet one of these guy's let's just say in a shopping mall is he going to stand their in the hallway with his "dick " hanging out so you'll know who he is LOL I've seen and spoken to some seriously stupid people on this site but there are some really good poeple on here also that just like to get wild and have some fun too, so one must weed through the BS to find the good ones thats all. Hang in there it gets better.


cloudy189 43M  
10 posts
10/22/2007 4:07 pm

LMAO! True, alot of guys are dense like that but you would be amazed how many women do it also. Yes, the close up shots of the female anatomy with nothing else are all over AdultFriendFinder and it's usually the fat chicks. I guess they attract the guys who post a cock shot only ?

As for mine, I don't kee pics on my profile becuase I'm a Officer / pilot in the military but I will send to individuals.


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