On Timers Hitters  

ridemehardnwet2 48F
22 posts
6/12/2006 7:52 pm

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On Timers Hitters

Are most people on this site looking for a one time fuck? I hate one night stands. Is there anything wrong with looking for a steady partner? Or a couple steady partners?

I tell you what. I really hate guys who hit it once and then don't wanna hit it again. I know I'm worth a second hit. And I'm sure there are plenty out there who are as well. With only one time, what chance do you get to really explore and find out what fun you could have the next time?

Why do guys do that? Is it a notch in the bedpost thing? You want a list of the users? I'd be happy to supply the ones I would recommend NO WOMAN should ever see!! Let me know. I'll talk!!

OK, I feel better!! Thanks for listening!!

Oh and guys: I am so sure that there are plenty of women out there who do the same. I know that we are not all innocents in this either.

IDsatisfaction 52M

6/12/2006 8:48 pm

We are the worst though, men. The minute our orgasm hits, we're dialed down and it takes a lot to get it going again.

I'm sure your worth a boat load of "hits" at least 10 if not 100 or more.

Some of us are on here for reasons unknown...myself included.

goboi_go 55M

6/12/2006 9:13 pm

Sometimes there's not a real connection and the sex from this person you like physically isn't all that great. Why prolong it? Why prolong the relationship or meet anymore? But there are players looking for statistics too.

In my own case the girl was beautiful but, unclothed and in action, she actually had a hygeine problem despite knowing we were going to meet I couldn't believe it. It was difficult to perform and I promised myself in the middle of it that would be the last time for her - so the odor was a majore distraction. Though, she has no idea I've made the decision to never go there again. It is difficult to explain things like that, so some women/men are left without any idea of why it was only a one-nighter because the person is avoiding giving them an explanation. I know there are other reasons less logical, or even explainable, but that's one o mine.

ridemehardnwet2 48F

6/12/2006 9:53 pm

IDsatisfaction and goboi_go,

Thank you so very much for your inputs. ID, did you not see that I added that not all women are perfect? Didn't mean to hurt your feelings!! I can understand a BO problem. I would feel the same way. But if you have a one nighter in mind and a girl (or guy) has said that they don't want that, then why go there? There are plenty out there who want only that, why disrespect them like that? Even on a sex site, people deserve a modecum of respect. Am I wrong?

rm_Shortdogg65 51M
672 posts
6/12/2006 10:12 pm

I'm pretty sure I couldn't hit it just once without wanting to hit it again. There has to be some attachment there for me to want to hit it in the first place. I've been trying to find a steady partner my whole adult life. I'm fairly confident she's out there. I just hope I find her before i'm to old to do anything about it. Shortdogg

goboi_go 55M

6/13/2006 6:32 am

First, the one-nighter was not pre-meditated, it "evolved" if you know what I mean. I would not engage someone for a one-nighter anyway.....well, not anymore.

I'm not quite sure what you mean by "go there" but I don't feel that telling them they stink accomplishes anything. Most definitely you will lose them as a friend. Conflict avoidance for many men is silence.

Lastly, I think I deserve a modicum of respect from her that she would be conscious of herself and take a shower and Im not talking about plain ol BO. That's Sex 101 and she failed.

ridemehardnwet2 48F

6/13/2006 6:11 pm

Please forgive my error in my caption!! I meant "One Time Hitters" Please forgive me!!!!

ready4u1930 54M
4 posts
6/14/2006 9:41 am

If you actually smelled something; why did you even hit it? To tell someone they have a hygiene issue I think it would be a plus. We are adults. Did you smell it the first time you met, or the second time you met, or was it just when u went for the one hitter quitter? Oh thats right it evolved. If u feel like this is salt in your game;it is.

Straight Pimpin

goboi_go 55M

6/14/2006 11:35 am

rm_Funbaldguy2 54M

6/23/2006 7:34 pm

I can totally relate. I want to find someone that is just for some fun and be consistent. I am actually more scared of a one and done. If I ever meet someone, it will be with the thought of meeting them again.

I know a few reasons why you might get a one timer. First a guy might get a guilt trip. Something happens when the wad is gone, their mind gets clear. The first time I cheated on my wife that is what happened to me. I freaked out. Luckily, I was with a very understanding woman. She told me that the first time she cheated on her husband the same thing happened to her. We ended up meeting several more times and had some very enjoyable times. Then all of a sudden she just disappeared. I still wonder where she is to this day.

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