What happened?  

rm_rickmeister3 53M
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3/13/2006 1:54 pm
What happened?


I met my wife 13 years ago at a Halloween party. I got introduced to her by a friend whom she was hitting on. But he had a girlfriend so he introduced her to me. I was working the party (a part time job after a recent divorce) as a quasi-bouncer so I was pretty much restricted to staying on the lower level while the party was on the upper level. The restrooms were downstairs and I happen to see her heading back upstairs and motioned for her to come back down. She said "I've been down here a couple of times and you didn't seem interested." I told her to come outside with me and I'd show her how interested I was. Once outside I pressed her up against the wall and kissed her. I figured she'll either like it or I'll get slapped. No biggy either way since I didn't have anything to lose. She seemed to like it. After the party she invited me to her apartment with a friend of hers and another guy her friend met at the party. I mixed a pitcher of margaritas and we all talked for awhile. Then her friend and the other guy left for his place. I figured what the hell she liked the kiss now maybe I can take this to the next level. We started making out and I lifted her top with no resistance. I thought wow this is way to easy. I started sucking on her breasts and then heard loud strange noises. To my amazement she was fucking snoring. I couldn't believe it! So I put my dick in between my legs and let myself out. A couple of days later I called her. She was surprised to here from me and apologized for falling asleep. I said no problem but I have to tell you that was the first time that that had happened to me. Kinda made me question my abilities to please a girl. But no harm done. We started dating regularly and eventually moved in together. She was so much fun. She loved football, drank beer, is absolutely beautiful (5'8 120, brown hair, and piercing green eyes), loved having sex with her, intelligent, etc...After we moved in together and became comfortable with each other we talked about fantasies and other sexual topics. Come to find out she said she had never masturbated. I couldn't believe it since I've been masturbating since I was like seven. I'm 42 now and still do very very often. I got her to explore her body and she discovered a new found self satisfying pleasure. Then she told me she has had thoughts of being with another girl. My dick immediately was trying to reach for the stars. I had a mission! I need to hook my girl up with another girl. I further pursued her fantasies and asked her if she would consider being with another guy. She wasn't sure but didn't say no. I used to have to drive to Oregon from California to pickup my daughter from my previous marriage. I asked her if she wanted to come along for the ride when I had to drop my daughter off on the return trip and we'd stay the night in Grants Pass, OR. We went out for drinks and the topic turned to sex. She said she thought it would be fun to be with another guy. There went my dick again. We hit a couple of bars and there was no prospects at all. The one place we went was dead. The only guy in the place had a fucking parrot on his shoulder. I thought this is a turn-on, Not. Then my girl said "The guy that checked us in at the hotel is cute." I said let's get the hell out of here. It was about 11pm and I thought he might be gone. But being the accommodating guy I am I went to the front desk to see if he was still there. When I walked in he had a backpack on his shoulder getting ready to leave. I said "Can I talk to you for a minute." He looked terrified. I asked him if he would like to come party with us. He looked relieved and said "shit I thought you were pissed because I was checking out your girl." We went to our room and had a couple drinks. We played strip poker and lucky for us she was losing. When she was down to her tiny panties and bra I couldn't take it any longer. I started kissing her while he took off her panties and started licking her pussy. She was loving it. We had a great time. That was the beginning of many encounters with girls, guys, and couples. I was in my glory. That went on for about 3-4 years. Then something happened. She started saying she felt guilty and this lifestyle was wrong. I was disappointed but didn't want her to do anything she didn't want to. There have been a couple of threesomes since then. One recently as September with a friend of mine. That was the first time in over two years which was with this same guy. She said at first she was nervous but later enjoyed it. Now I'm lucky to get laid. If I didn't initiate sex we probably wouldn't have it. She also has become verbally abusive to me and very distant. One would initially think she's fucking around on me. But I swear to God this girl has the integrity and honesty to tell me if that were the case. I am now so miserable that I want to and need to get out of this. We have a 10 year old that I'm am very close to. I hate the thought of her being without a complete family. But I don't know how much longer I can stay in this loveless relationship. WHAT HAPPENED? Don't say it's because of our extra curricular activities because I know that's not it. I earn well over 100k per year, I cook, I help clean, I give her pretty much what she wants, I am very easy going, and I'm a good lover. I would love to have my old girl back but I don't see that happening. Any suggestions?

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