SEX GUIDE TO AFF  

rhinodave8 52M
3 posts
2/23/2006 3:50 pm

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SEX GUIDE TO AFF


This question is baffling most of you and I am about to answer all your questions in about 10 min of my time.
Its really a very simple process that you have to be willing to commit to so you can actually meet people.
There are some simple steps to follow if you are really serious about meeting someone and not spending 149.99 for 3 months or whatever it is.... Now most of the gold and silver members think it is worth it and it just may be but you don't have to do it that way...so here is your 2% chance at finding someone and you will see why after reading it...

#1 find a local chat room and people have whats called meet and greets.... GO TO THEM... meet some of the people in the rooms they are very nice people but don't go looking to get laid guys... if it happens great but if it don't then so be it you just met a bunch of nice people..

#2 be nice in the rooms no one likes a smart ass people aren't going to talk to you because they just don't know you... try to ease your way into conversations but don't be pushy... alot of these people have met and known each other for a long time...

#3 lurk and pay attention in the chat room there are couples looking for couples, women looking for women, etc.. you might as well just cross those off right away...

#4 look at peoples profile and where they are located. there is no way that someone 90 miles away is going to be a good match for you. I don't think if you click with someone its going to last having to drive 2 hours each way all the time. So be smart and look very local.. I happened to find a very nice woman 10 min from me and that is unusual...

#5 after all that then talk to them and tell them you would like to chat and see if you are even compatible... sure some are just looking for sex but they may be 19 and you may be 41 is that going to work.. again read the profile...

#6 build a relationship talk to them online and ask them to meet you at a meet and greet usually there is 50-100 people there and you can actually sit and talk to that person... its usually in a bar or something like that... a safe environment for all...

#7 if all that comes together you just may have found someone you like and are compatible with and can be social with and maybe start some sort of contact with... amazing all the patience you have to go through just to possibly find 1 person.... but it has to be done to work on AdultFriendFinder... at least in my opinion.....

or I suppose you could just go to the local bar and maybe pick up some chick or guy for a one nighter if thats what your into... but then again you are on AdultFriendFinder for one reason or another... so try my way or if you have a better one then lets fuck online please post...

I felt I had to write this because of all the people that come into the chat rooms and never get spoken too... and they can not understand why... well I think I explained it pretty well... good luck to you all... and may all your fantasies be fulfilled.... RHINODAVE8 out....

LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
2/23/2006 5:04 pm

HI .. I'LL COMMENT!!! on your blog.

This is a good guide for chatting you did ... so many dont get it.... that is why they dont get "IT" ... lol

Re your previous post,... it takes a while to get noticed ... those most viewed & commented in work hard by commenting on select blogs ... hoping for return of favour .. .not a lotta fun i think.

Sexy or prevocative (sexually or otherwise) post titles or sexy blog names draw people also .. just plain old fun stuff does not draw a lot of folks.

Our theme is a draw for example ... not suggestin you change .. just lettin you know how it works here ... my take.

Keep up the good work!!! Cum see me if you feel the ... err ... urge ... lol
lil


rhinodave8 52M
3 posts
2/24/2006 1:58 pm

I will cum see you sometime just gimme a few minutes... hehehe... like I always say you cant say you dont like something if you never tried it...


rhinodave8 52M
3 posts
3/17/2006 11:36 pm

ya know I have come to realize there may be no perfect person in this world for some people... I think some people just settle... Do I question that???? yes... but then again do you want to be alone.... these are the puzzling mysteries we face everyday.... especially those people that have BF's or GF's.... are you just settling for them because you have no one else??? I settled into a marriage for 18 years and she left for a 12 year old younger man.... well let me tell you something...who is paying the price.. it isnt me... She is a little puppy dog now that has to be told where to pee..... how pathetic is that when she had the whole world... and yes I mean the whole world.... I guess you can say love conquers all but not stupidity... I will bet money she ends up in jail or something.... and I only own several businesses and am hardly a bad looking gentleman.... I am just stating fact not trying to burst my own bubble but why go from good to bad...

I would like your opinions on the subject....


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