Soul mates are not a one-shot deal  

reverend21 49M
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7/8/2006 2:02 am

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Soul mates are not a one-shot deal

Don’t panic. You didn’t miss meeting your soul mate when you skipped going to that party last weekend. Soul mates find you if you’re open to them. Besides, you don’t have one great love–you have many potential great loves. According to New York Minister and Psycho-Spiritual Counselor, Susan Lemak, soul mates are profound soul connections in your life. When you’re with one, you stop looking, so you’re not aware of the other potential soul mates around you. While you’re thinking how hard it is to find The One, the reality is that it’s hard for you to choose. A soul mate is someone who reflects or matches your energy and your path in life. A soul mate is someone whose power and potential are complementary to your own. And you’ll find them in the most unlikely places. Lemak adds, “You know that great person sitting near you at work? The one who makes you laugh, but might be 10 pounds overweight? Maybe not the coolest person–but dig a little deeper. You could find a soul mate in there.”

Interesting theory, but potential mates are not soul mates in my opinion. Once again though, we are directed to the person inside, not the outward appearance

Notfunanymore 105F
10289 posts
7/8/2006 8:45 am

Good post man!!

reverend21 replies on 7/8/2006 2:35 pm:
stop! your making me blush all over!

sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
7/8/2006 10:41 am

I know where you got this one! I read it too. My favorite will be the following copied from the website...

Soul mates are not necessarily permanent. Like the ending of a fairytale, we're often raised to believe that a soul mate is our "happily over after." How old were you when realized that fairy tales don't come true? Soul mates are certainly considered the prince charming and his princess of modern romance. Yet what happens if your romance goes sour–that soul mate turns out to be a bum? Of course you're not out of luck. You move on, heal, and open up to the next soul mate. If you look at the traditional idea of soul mates, your beloved, you'll realize that a higher force may have more than one love in store for you. To love someone and be loved is a deeply spiritual state.

reverend21 replies on 7/8/2006 2:31 pm:
mine too, I'll be posting that one soon
this article seemed to diminsh the idea or concept of the soulmate

ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
7/8/2006 1:09 pm

rev...Like to post...I guess some people might have to reevaluate their understanding of a soul mate...


reverend21 replies on 7/8/2006 2:35 pm:
the big thing you have to remember is that people change, grow, and relationships evolve. I think the best way to put it is that most men marry hoping the woman won't change, and the woman marries hoping the man will

phoenix639 49F

7/8/2006 2:57 pm

I once believed in soul mates....that belief has gone now though.

reverend21 replies on 7/8/2006 8:45 pm:
I still believe, I can't abondon my faith, otherwise things become to random and loose meaning

papyrina 50F
21133 posts
7/8/2006 5:29 pm

i married my mate,just not my soul mate

I'm a

i'm here to stay

reverend21 replies on 7/8/2006 8:46 pm:
ah, but do the souls of you and your mate intertwine and become one?

Notfunanymore 105F
10289 posts
7/8/2006 6:21 pm

sassybelle21 ...... She's so smart!!!
She's my daughter, you know!!
~~ I didn't even know she commented this!
She's one that I'm proud to say, "I'm her mom in America"!

Sorry man........
but I'm not..... she continually blesses me with her intelligence!

reverend21 replies on 7/8/2006 8:52 pm:
Your IQ, intellengence, smart factor if you will most of the time is determined by geographical localtion and the cercustances at hand, never sell yourself short, as by knowing that others are more intelligent in some areas than you is a clear sighn of high intellegence.


7/9/2006 6:04 am

Exactly why I believe in no need to rush! There is perfect timing and has nothing to do with us! {=}

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

reverend21 replies on 7/9/2006 8:40 am:
yep, after all, you usually find what your looking for when you aren't looking for it

rm_Archieball2 38M
332 posts
7/12/2006 7:43 pm

Do you believe in soulmates???

How many times do you chat with someone and have them say the same thing as you...ask the same question at the same time...give the same answer.
Is it coincidence? Is it telepathy? Is it Kismet?

Is this person your twin soulmate? Someone who shares your ideations, beliefs, thoughts, and feelings. A mirror image of yourself that no one else sees but the two of you. Is it possible?

Soulmates have various forms of relationships which may never include romantic love but yet you feel closer to certain people because you attract them to you. They seem to be on the same frequency as you. Karma is the responsibilities shared between soulmates.

We tend to think of our soulmate as the one who is always there for us...the one who makes us complete...the one who speaks to our heart without ever saying a word.They play the emotional...spiritual...physical...and mental roles in your life.
A soulmate is someone who influences your life.

Take the time to feel your soulmate...hold their hand...walk with them...BE THEM

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