Good ladies - where are you at?  

respectfulm28 40M
11 posts
8/28/2005 3:28 pm

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Good ladies - where are you at?


You know - I wonder sometimes if there any good down to earth, non-crazy, non-selfish women out there in this world. I pride myself on being respectful to women. But the old adage that nice guys finish last, seems to be true here. I just don't understand it - I have all that a woman would want. I am financially stable, I am selfless, I am intelligent, I know about passion and how to make it, I know how to creative when it comes to making love and I am always honest. Yet, I seem to find the women that only care about themselves and women that I cannot trust. My ex-wife chose her profession over me, a mistake she now regrets, but trying to find someone - the someone that I am looking for is so difficult. As the song says, "a lady in the street, but a freak in the bed" has never more accurately described what I have always desired. A lady, a womanly lady who knows fashion, who knows how to be a woman in public, a woman isn't afraid of a little hand holding or kissing of the neck. At the same time, while being out, that is all a prelude to getting home and just the two of us sharing that intimate moment. I am such a sucker for intimacy and passion, but somehow that doesn't seem to be enough. The ladies I run into seem to say that they want a guy to show them what it means to be loved and cared for, but when you give it to them, the prefer the guy that treats them like crap, or has little interest other than a 15 minute interval of what they think is passion. Maybe one day - Ms Perfect will fall in my lap - until then - but wait - can't be an until then - I am almost 29 and my youth is escaping me - running out of time - feeling the crunch to have that soulmate - my best friend, my love of my life.

hotdarter 47F
1520 posts
8/28/2005 4:54 pm

Respectful...youthfulness is a state of mind. I feel more youthful at almost 36 than I did at 26. You usually like yourself better as you get older.


respectfulm28 40M

8/28/2005 6:21 pm

Thank you for that comment - I do enjoy myself the older that I get - I just find it harder to meet new people. Being shy is not an attribute that I am most proud of. I am only shy in the beginning but I am working on that aspect. I do find my self sexier the older I get because I am more mature and more experienced which in turn leads to me looking at myself in a better light.


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