Why I don  

redmustang91 57M  
8725 posts
9/26/2005 9:37 am

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Why I don

I find chat here hard to enjoy. Seems like I am ignored or not part of the in crowd. I find the many swirling threads hard to follow or join and my responses seem disjointed and do not flow smoothly due to the lag in posting etc.

Recommendations where to chat for a better experience?

slightly_sexy8 38F
314 posts
9/26/2005 11:23 am

where have you tried? do you mean on AdultFriendFinder? the european hot tub can be ok at times. it's sort of like a discount store though, you never know if what you find will be good or not.

funwithyou6022 56F

9/26/2005 6:24 pm

I have checked out all those rooms on here. Everyone seems to know everyone. Cyberfantasy is all about the guys getting a girl to private sex chat. I grew bored very quickly. It is hard to talk to anyone on there, you are right, the response is delayed. If I have a bunch of people trying to talk to me and I get all mixed up. That may be the rookie in me though so perhaps an expert chatter would have better knowledge.

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
9/26/2005 8:49 pm

The rooms do get cliquey. I chat in a few of the regional rooms, but I'm part of the in-crowd in at least two of them.

Basically, when you're new to a room, sit back and watch for a bit. I know, the refresh here sucks, so does the way it scrolls. However, ever visit a really busy IRC room? The instant scroll can make it impossible to read.

Pick a color, any color but black, white or yellow. Watch for a conversation that interests you and get in there. That's how most newbies will get people to talk to them. Once you get the regs to talk to you, you're in. Be a gentleman, but you know that already. Use the iggy feature on the bots. Don't just shoot non-sequiters into the room. They might get you noticed, but not in a good way. Realize the guys talk to each other in rooms where there are regulars, so don't scream a guy who says hi is hitting on you.

A sure way to get women to notice you? If you notice a guy acting like a complete jackass to the women in the room, jump in to defend the honor of the ladies. Works like a charm every time.

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
9/26/2005 9:26 pm

How bout in a real room with a real person?

rm_koocnachtiek 60M
376 posts
9/26/2005 9:50 pm

Ha! What would you know about that keithcantconverse ?

The only person you ever talk to is ME!

Is this just another trick by keithcancook
to get his text on television?

redmustang91 57M  
8599 posts
9/27/2005 3:43 am

I think I will stick to one on one emails or live chat! The chaos level is too high for me!

DirtyLilSecret61 55F

9/27/2005 8:04 am

I used to chat religiously (well not about religion, unless you call sex a religion) at yahoo but now it's full of bots. It was very cliqueish and cerebral chat was non-existent (of course I admittedly was NOT in the MENSA rooms).

I find more chat with the folks at Best Buy really.

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