What is sexy?  

redmustang91 57M  
8736 posts
11/4/2005 9:20 am

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What is sexy?


Bella asked if she was sexy in her blog, which got me thinking. What does being sexy mean?

For me sexy is an attitude. The brain is the biggest sex organ. Someone in touch with his or her own inner spark of sexuality. A person who enjoys sex, enjoys giving his or her partner orgasms, and has a strong biological urge to copulate!

A sexy woman is young (for her age), healthy, attractive and vibrant. Having a keen mind, a zest for life, a warm, loving way, a quick laugh and a joy that is infectitious.

Some of my favorite women who epitomize sexy: Jean Harlow, Ava Gardner, Rita Hayworth, Grace Kelly, Brigitte Bardot, Catherine Denuve, Angelina Jolie, Sophia Loren, Shakira, Shania Twain, Pat Benatar, Deborah Harry, Claudia Schiffer, Christina Ricci, Kirsten Dunst, Pink, Halle Berry, Salma Hayek, and many others!

Sexy males: Cary Grant, Clark Gable, Paul Newman, Tom Cruise, Marlon Brando, George Clooney, Dean Martin, Steve McQueen, Gregory Peck, Gary Cooper, Errol Flynn, Kirk Douglas, Burt Lancaster, Ricki Martin, David Beckham, Rick Fox, etc.

HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

11/4/2005 10:11 am

BUT ALL THE SEXY WOMEN YOU NAMED OFF ARE ALL SEXY BY LOOKS STANDARDS, WHAT ABOUT SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T HAVE THE LOOKS( LIKE THE WOMEN YOU NAMED) BUT HER PERSONALITY MAKES HER SEXY?
TAKE ME FOR INSTANCE, I AM NOT A LOOKER AT ALL,BUT SOME HAVE SAID MY PERSONALITY AND MY SEXUAL CONFIDENCE MAKES ME SEXY. I CAN'T EVEN COME CLOSE TO HOLDING A CANDLE TO THE ABOVE MENTIONED WOMEN, OR BELLA FOR THAT MATTER, BUT I DO THINK I AM SEXY IN OTHER WAYS.
NAME A FEW BBW,IF YOU CAN, THAT ARE SEXY.............


redmustang91 57M  
8604 posts
11/4/2005 4:46 pm

Well Sophia Loren is bigger, and still sexy. The media does not show many BBw's and let us get to know them as sexy. I liked the BBW in my Big Fat Greek Wedding and found her personality sexy. I would also say that Kathy Bates in About Schmidt was a sexy BBW in her nude scene! Mae WEst as an older woman was hefty and still very sexy. My point was sexy is an attitude, but healthy and fit even if larger, also helps!


MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
11/7/2005 3:07 pm

um... Sophia Loren is not bigger. She's top heavy, but when she was acting she was NOT a BBW, or even close to it. Nor was Mae West. Mae West was also top heavy, but she had an hourglass figure and a flat abdomen. Google images of both. Mae West was perceived to be heavier thanks to her chest and the round face. (My sister had this problem. People perceived her as fat, because of a round face, while she was all of 90 pounds and wearing a size 2.)

Granted, both those women would be considered fat by today's Hollywood standard, which is a size 0.

BTW, look up the chick from "My Big Fat Greek Wedding." If she's a BBW, then I'm a complete Jabba. She's NOT fat.


redmustang91 57M  
8604 posts
11/8/2005 7:47 am

I was trying to be nice and BBW is in the mind of the beholder. The media does not show many voluptous heavier women so I do not have their names! My point was sexy is an attitude and is predominantly in the mind. Of course a lithe and supple healthy body is a turn on!

Sex is good exercise so you can get sleeker by being more sexually active!


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