Want what you don't have? Not always!  

redmustang91 57M  
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7/6/2005 2:28 pm

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Want what you don't have? Not always!


The grass is greener on the other side of the fence, is proverbial. Or maybe the grass is just over the septic tank, as Erma Bombeck wrote.

Some things I do not have I do not want. Like cancer, aids, assassins trying to assassinate me. Negative and painful stuff.

Sexually, those with a partner are often looking to have an experience unlike the present partner one. More like a porno or hooker experience. Oddly enough, the best hooker experience is described as a "gfe" or girlfriend experience, with the kissing and intimacy or a hot time with a girlfriend! So partners imitate hookers and hookers imitate girlfriends! Hookers and pornos are just faking it anyway. But it looks good and can feel good too, I understand.

Seems a number of married women are looking for a woman to have a lesbian sexual experience. This type of sex is seen as less cheating, apparently. Perhaps a different type of sex is seen as less competitive with the male sex activity? To me sex is sex, whether with a female or male.

Wanting what you don't have makes sense sometimes. Humans seem to strive for what is beyond their grasp. That process of desiring what you have not got leads to new adventures, but can prevent contentment and happiness with the current state.

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