redmustang91 57M  
8729 posts
12/8/2005 8:28 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


I think rudeness and inconsideration are the biggest turnoffs in a relationship.

Perhaps the issue some women make about putting down the toilet seat is not about the seat at all. It is about changing your behavior because your significant other wants you to; showing you care enough about her feelings to modify your behavior.

My spouse fails this test. For years I have asked her to close drawers and doors, deposit used nose wipes and dental floss in the trash and to return scissors, pens or tools to the place they started, so I can find them when they are needed. She does not. Her usual excuse is she is busy or forgot. My issue is she does not care enough to do what I ask just to please me. The truth is she does not.

So if you want to make someone feel special, do something you dislike or don't want to do for them! It no sacrifice if you want to do it!

caressmewell 53F

12/8/2005 9:18 am

We have forgotten to treat people the way WE want to be treated.

redmustang91 57M  
8599 posts
12/8/2005 9:23 am

Actually I think you should treat others better than you treat yourself. Not as you would treat yourself but as they would like to be treated!

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