Reciprocity  

redmustang91 57M  
8701 posts
7/12/2006 1:34 pm

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7/13/2006 7:53 am

Reciprocity


In my view, the key concept to successful human interaction is the concept of reciprocity. In contracts to make a binding deal you need each party to receive consideration [or rarely a substitute]. In sex, consideration is great too, along with reciprocity.

But some mistake the concept to mean equal treatment. Not necessarily. Lets assume the guy likes blow jobs, but the woman does not like to receive oral sex due to shyness or some other cause. The guy should not reciprocate his getting oral sex with giving oral sex to the female. Give the other person what she wants, not what you want or even what you received.

Simple, but surprising how many people miss the concept. Communication of what you want is important, just as important as listening to what they want! Then giving what they want.

akron42   
2375 posts
7/12/2006 2:26 pm

You sound like a very enlightened man!


redmustang91 57M  
8561 posts
7/13/2006 7:53 am

I am and I keep trying to lose weight so I can get more enlightened...


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