Normal human sexuality  

redmustang91 57M  
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3/3/2006 8:19 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Normal human sexuality


"Normal" can mean lots of different things. I look at the world in a statistical way. So most measured phenomenons fall within the first three standard deviations. Meaning 95% of the population is within the range that I would call "normal". The outstanding 5% is abnormal or not within the norm.

Most want to be called normal and feel good to carry that label, while some prefer to see themselves as rebels, with or without a cause, and revel in the abnormal label.

I prefer to exist unlabeled. You can affix a tag to me if you like, but I retain my individual essence.

Take frequency of orgasm. Generally males are more frequently orgasming than women, but that is not always true. Because women do not have a refractory period, in one sex session an aroused woman can have ten orgasms or more if she chooses. Sadly many women do not seem to be enjoying their orgasmic potential. That failure to exploit their capability is puzzling to me. Is it due to socialization that sex is bad? Failure to find suitable men to assist the project? Modest sex drive? Not enough time with the stresses from work and housekeeping and children? Or what?

In a perfect world I would be having orgasms twice a day, morning and evening, every day! Perhaps in my next life I will come back as a hot woman and get my wishes fulfilled. Until then, there remains self-help, and a willing helpful friend occasionally!

redmustang91 57M  
8572 posts
3/5/2006 4:57 am

Well with a helpful woman guys can have a second shot after a while...

Some women have no orgasms, ever. My view is if one orgasm is good, two is better and three or more is best. I say why stop before you have six or eight...


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