Nobody's perfect!  

redmustang91 57M  
8733 posts
6/20/2005 8:18 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Nobody's perfect!

I have to laugh at those benighted souls searching for the perfect male or female. Those who are religious recall only God and Jesus are perfect. The rest of us are fallible. No big deal? WRONG!

The search for perfection eliminates the enjoyment of the possible. The ideal is the enemy of the real.

Fools say I will not compromise, I will not lower my standards! Are they perfect? Not even close. I feel those with impossible dreams are simply avoiding intimacy and emotional possibility.

Self delusion is the most popular game.

Consider that our flaws are what makes us human and lovable, not just our strengths.

So lets get real!

rm_affbreak 46M
287 posts
6/22/2005 4:47 pm

Main Entry: search

Etymology: Middle English cerchen, from Middle French cerchier to go about, survey, search, from Late Latin circare to go about, from Latin circum round about -- more at CIRCUM- transitive senses

1 : to look into or over carefully or thoroughly in an effort to find or discover something: as a : to examine in seeking something <searched the north field> b : to look through or explore by inspecting possible places of concealment or investigating suspicious circumstances c : to read thoroughly : CHECK; especially : to examine a public record or register for information about <search land titles> d : to examine for articles concealed on the person e : to look at as if to discover or penetrate intention or nature

The journey is the reward.

redmustang91 57M  
8599 posts
6/24/2005 3:21 pm

Actauly in searching for a lover I hope the lover provides the reward in hot sex. The search part is a fucking pain in the ass! Not that rewarding and full of BS! Now I recall why I got married, because dating is such a waste of time and effort all too often.

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