Love and sex  

redmustang91 57M  
8736 posts
12/2/2005 10:08 am

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Love and sex

Love between sex partners, is a combination of sex, affection, respect, friendship, admiration and a history of good times, combined with a willingness to work out differences over the long haul. It often includes kids, marriage and financial interdependence.

A recreational sex friendship has some but not all of these elements. A lustful friendship is usually not long term, does not involve the same finacial or child raising commitment and puts more emphasis on the fun and joy of sex. the joy of sex in a LTR often gets derailed by life, work, kids, lack of variety, and inhibitions.

Problems happen when lust leads to romance and divorce or destruction of previous relationships. People build walls to prevent lust turning into love. Your views on love and lust?

saddletrampsk 54F

12/2/2005 11:12 am

Love is love and lust is lust and never the two shall meet..

FriendlybutKinky 49M

12/2/2005 11:17 am

When you have Love, but no Lust the relationship can exist happily, but will probably feel like it is missing 'excitement'

When you have Love combined with Lust, it is freaking amazing!

Lust without Love...heck, that is just everyday life!

No Lust, No Love? uh oh, this person has some serious problems.


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angelofmercy5 59F
17881 posts
12/2/2005 11:25 am

When the person you love is also the person you is wonderful. My friend says when you lust someone, but have no love for them, there may be excitement and passion for the moment...but the caring stops there. I honestly am not sure you can separate the two.

redmustang91 57M  
8604 posts
12/2/2005 1:33 pm

Actually I have had lust and love for a few women and the combo is better than either one separately. I think there is some love in every lust, and some lust in every love. At this point I am looking for someone to share affectionate lust, as in a friendly lover without the baggage of a marriage and the let down from doing the same old thing. Married men need and want hot sex too!

rm_lizzygeliner 41M

12/9/2005 4:39 pm

Looking for an online sex partner that can do anything to make love to me and appreciate my stay on internet for her just for sex and some private encounters.

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