King Canute  

redmustang91 57M  
8704 posts
2/7/2006 8:46 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

King Canute

King Canute was famous for ordering the sea to not come in. The tide ignored him.

Females here and elsewhere famously lament males inappropriately trying to have sex with them despite not meeting various stringent criteria in their profiles. Are guys stupid or unable to read? No.

The male sex drive does not understand the concept of No, or later! It wants sex now. Now not convenient, how about five minutes from now? Ten minutes, 15?

The puzzling thing is women understand this desire at some level, just as men understand it is not going to happen usually. But men "think" there is no harm in asking, they might get lucky! If you don't ask you won't get... so they always ask!

So what part of males having a strong sex drive ladies do you not get?

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
2/7/2006 5:15 pm

We get it. However, we don't want to just run out and fuck someone who hasn't said more to us than hi. If a guy is looking for any port in a storm, hookers work. Nowhere did we sign a contract with this site saying we're obliged to fuck anyone who asks. You also seem to forget, when we turn down most men who think we should fuck them because they're horny, they only live ten minutes away, they like our pictures, etc, they get nasty with us. We suddenly become too fat, too ugly, too old, etc. They only asked because they felt someone who looks like us needs someone to throw them a bone. Look, we're not hookers. We need to feel an attraction to the person asking too. Otherwise, it's going to be a dry, painful experience for us, while some idiot who just wants to thrust away at a hole with a minimum amount of foreplay gets his rocks off. If that's all a guy wants, he needs a hooker. Not one of us.

redmustang91 57M  
8572 posts
2/8/2006 7:47 am

Miss Ann, you have a legitimate point, and many males are clueless. BUT you tar all guys with the same brush. As for hookers, at least you can get what you pay for...

Feelings of attraction are key all around. Unless there is chemistry there is no point. Some of us just do better in chemistry class than others. If you are too picky you never get picked up on...

And then everyone loses.

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
2/10/2006 3:05 am

red, from what I can tell, there are two types of men I encounter on this site... The knuckledraggers who want a hole, any hole and start calling you names when you won't call a cab at 2 AM and go service them the way a hooker would. The other type are intimidated easily by any woman who speaks in anything but monosyllabic words. So, my choices are, do guys who just want to push away at a hole for all of 2 minutes or nothing. I would much rather have nothing than to feel used by someone too cheap to spend $200 on a call girl.

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