How many lovers can you juggle?  

redmustang91 57M  
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6/27/2006 9:04 am

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How many lovers can you juggle?


I have been saying i was looking for a few good women, like the Marines used to slogan. But how many woman can one man properly juggle? You want to have enough time and sex drive to do a good job.

Tell me your views, as I try to sort out my poly amorous approach to life...

TnWitchyWoman 56F
6852 posts
6/27/2006 11:06 am

It simply depends. Some guys can't keep one woman happy, some can keep more than one. Personally I don't want any more than two people in my life and don't want someone else that wants more than two either. Any more than that and I might be keeping other's happy but I wouldn't have time for myself or to get the daily chores done. Well...unless one wants to hire me a maid! LMAO


redmustang91 57M  
8568 posts
6/28/2006 4:54 am

Well TnWitch that sounds sensible, but humans are often not sensible. Everyone seems very busy these days so having just one lover means frequently not seeing that person...


TnWitchyWoman 56F
6852 posts
6/28/2006 11:33 pm

    Quoting redmustang91:
    Well TnWitch that sounds sensible, but humans are often not sensible. Everyone seems very busy these days so having just one lover means frequently not seeing that person...
I'm a sensible kind of gal. My situation at home is that my husband is only home 1-2 days out of the week. That means we see each other 52-104 days out of the year plus vacation time. That means we technically live together more than two months but less than 4 months out of the entire year. If you figure the *average* married couple sleeps together 7 nights a week but is only having sex one night a week it doesn't look real good for us. So that's pretty much why I've had someone else and managed to keep both happy. I don't know if I could do that with my husband home 7 nights a week....but I'd like to try. *wicked grin*


bipolybabe 54F

7/5/2006 8:13 am

Hmmm...when I first imagined my ideal poly life, I figured I needed three or four hard men and one lovely soft woman.

I'd like sex at least four or five times a week, and I tend to exhaust my lovers. In fact, I'd really like four or five in one night to see if I could ever get to that "enough" stage.

Now, having had a little experience with how much time it takes to manage the relationships (not to mention the time for all that sex), I'd say one or two tops.

But, as TnWitchy points out, it all depends on how often one sees them.

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