Contemplating sluttiness  

redmustang91 57M  
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9/9/2005 8:42 am

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Contemplating sluttiness

For a male an orgasm is an unqualified good! Feels good and makes you feel alive! Apparently women enjoy them too! So what is the problem?

Oddly enough women are built for heavy duty sex. They can have intercourse for hours with natural or augmented lubrication. On average men last seven minutes after penetration, according to the surveys and under two minutes is considered premature ejaculation! Nature is not playing fair!

Some female prostitutes or porn stars regularly have sex numerous times each day for years without adverse effects, apparently. The males porn stars are able with practice to climax six or more times, but with much more difficulty! There is Viagra, Levitra and Cialis, but it is still a tougher task for the men to repeat sexual performance.

So why is the great sexual prowess a wonderful thing for a man, and a term of derision for a woman? Why are woman called sluts and whores and men called players and BMOC?

Men claim to want a virgin who is fabulous at sex. Not possible. Sex like most physical activity takes practice. You gain ability with experience.

Apart from fear of disease, why not want an experienced partner? Some guys may want virgins so the woman will not know how bad the guy is at sex having no basis for comparison!

Perhaps this slut as a bad thing is changing as Brittany Spears and MTV popularizes the notion of Spring Break and permissive sexuality permeates society at increasingly young ages.

When will our society accept women as sexual beings and see that as a good thing?

Not sure what my point is except that our society sends such mixed messages about sexuality that it is not surprising so many seem to be confused.

One has to be clear about what is acceptable and what you want and why.

funwithyou602 56F

9/9/2005 11:38 am

I don't think there is anything wrong with being a "slut" My bunch of friends back in prehistoric times use to call it sexually free. Me, I am not a "slut" but sure do envy the girls who are. I think from my viewpoint the term slut was developed by women who heard all the men bragging about all the girls they fucked and wishing they had it in them to do the same. Of course a womans mind can get pretty complicated. The bottom line is...You are sexually free if you sleep with men who don't veiw you as a peice of meat, and, you are a slut if you sleep with men who need another notch on their bed post to brag about.

and my other thought...

Yes women can go all night/day/weekend/week so why are all the guys complaining that they don't get enough?

I expect any man to cum quick the first time and maybe the second but all the more for me to drink. Ahhhh lost my train of thought there lol. Guys can get hard over and over, and go all night all day all weekend and all week just like the girls. We are talented in keeping a man aroused, making him have multiple orgasms, sucking him hard again and there is much more playtime in the sack to be had than just sex to. So guys should stop worrying about cumming to fast, there are always seconds, thirds, forths etc...until you just don't want to get hard anymore. Draining a man dry can be taken on as a challenge so it is really up to the guy whether he wants to roll over and go to sleep or let the games continue.

redmustang91 57M  
8656 posts
9/9/2005 1:55 pm

Love your attitude! Very sexy! I am sure many would try to rise to the occasion and be up for it! There is always Cialis too!

funwithyou602 56F

9/10/2005 9:08 am

Hey sexy redmustang I am still waiting for my question to be answered. Why do men always feel like they are not getting enough? I hear that alot on here. Then I hear about this performance anxiety issue. My word. If the woman is not satisfied with the sex, she seems to be filing her nails during intercourse do men reallly think it is because they are no good? We just have to get out of our heads. Well the upper head for you guys. If the woman is just laying there like dead wood you are screwing the wrong woman. It takes two baby and if she wants more than a dead wood fuck she needs to get in the game.

Dam, sex is about fun, it is not a test. I repeat it is not a test. If you cum to fast then have at it and cum again. If she is not enjoying it find someone who does. Us, all playmates are responsible for ourselves and our own enjoyment. We cannot lay there and expect to be entertained... I can, I do find great enjoyment out of being entertained. It is up to each and everyone to show our partners what we want, to equally give and recieve, to be present and active in the moment. Blah blah blah I am getting speechy You get my drift.

Mr. IQ 140 what does Cialis mean? I am but of simple mind

redmustang91 57M  
8656 posts
9/10/2005 3:26 pm

Cialis is a longer lasting drug which works like Viagra, gives one a bigger and stronger erection which lasts an hour or more anytime during three days! A fun drug. Sex is supposed to be fun, I agree. I do not have great amount of performance anxitety, except when do we get to perform?

I cannot speak to why all men feel they are not getting enough sex. Some men have a greater sex drive or desire to have sex than their partners. That is my situation. It is also a desire for novelty.
Freud called it the allure of the stranger.

funwithyou602 56F

9/10/2005 4:48 pm

God help us. Freud? Do not tell me you practice Freudian psychology. There would be alot more sane people in the world if Freud had played more and thought less. He sooo needed to get out of his head. Well, human services, specifically mental health, is my baby so of course I have some strong veiws on it. The only good thing to come out of him was the ability to tell someone they just did a Freudian slip. Well didn't I open up a can of worms there.
Scary isn't it! Me, wacky me, involved in mental health. I tell everyone to just enjoy lol my answer for everything. Just kidding. It can be very serious business. I learned many years ago to never over anaylize anything. It hurts the brain and ruins the sex drive.

redmustang91 57M  
8656 posts
9/12/2005 4:34 pm

I think Freud had lots of interesting suppositions about human fantasy life. I spent some time interpreting literature with a psychoanalytic slant. More fun than other type of lit crit in my view. From what I can tell Freud made many mistakes and psychoanalysis is not very effective as a therapy. Still I enjoyed his Interpretation of Dreams, Psychopathology of Every day life, and Jokes and their relation to the unconscious.

funwithyou602 56F

9/12/2005 8:40 pm

I have a fond affection for water. Waterfalls, lakes, oceans, rivers, ponds and dream a whole lot about water. Could you look that up for me? Lol

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