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Some sex therapists are now advocating adults and kids return to the quaint idea of baseball sex. For those not old enough to remember:
First base was kissing aka making out. Done on second or third date. First date ended with a kiss goodnight if a possible love connection, or not if not.
Second base was fondling her breasts, with kissing, generally on third to sixth dates.
Third base was stroking her vagina or mutual masturbation. Advanced couples added oral sex here. From a month to six months after onset of dating.
Home base was intercourse! Some women remained technical virgins by refusing vaginal intercourse reserving that last orifice for future husband's use!
Why is this system better than having intercourse on the first, second or third date? The theory is that people get to know each other better; the sex is more meaningful when you have gained trust and affection with your partner. In some circles women have reinstituted these rules to slow up the guys so the women will be taken more seriously as ltr partners. Others just prefer to add spice by building suspense.
What is your take on baseball sex? Hopelessly old fashioned or a good antidote to too fast fucking?
7/14/2005 3:51 am
I could get behind it if the Partner could. That would make each of |
us looking forward to each date knowing what is or is not expected
by and for each other.
7/14/2005 8:02 am
And think of the joy of sliding into home base, when you finally do get there!|