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redhotlover8282 34F
5 posts
10/31/2005 10:10 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

update1


wow....i was surprised to get some responses seeing as i am new to this thing but thank you to those of you who wrote back. any comments i DO get i will read and take into consideration if there is any advice. i'm happy to say that i now have a new job that i love and am so happy to have. the bf and i are doing great and are antsy for my divorce to be finalized. only about a month to go till i'm finally divorced and rid of his ass. can't wait to move on to my new life. i have been independent my whole life and i am ready to be with someone who knows how to treat me well and i will be honored to treat well in return. maybe this new guy is him maybe he isn't either way i'm not getting married again for a while. need to make sure the guy is going to stick before i go down that path again. so far washington is treating me alright and i'm getting on the right foot again now. will post again soon...........

Efilnikufecin69 47M

11/1/2005 4:09 am

Well deary, you just got started so you can expect it to take some time before comments really start rolling in!

As far as the relationship thing, you are right by taking it slow. I got married when I was 21 and divorced when I was 25. I promised myself to think it over the next time. I am now 36 and not married. I have had 2 long term relationships in that time, but none that I would consider as "the one".

Most recently I met what I consider the love of my life. Wierd as it may seem, we hit it off right away and have let nothing and noone between us. The only thing separating us now is distance. We IM everyday, and talk often on the phone. This helps bridge the time until I get my stuff together, leave Europe and go back home to the US, to my love.

Keep your eyes open. Don't let him treat you bad. If he starts, then ship him off right away and find someone worthy of you! You seem like a smart girl and I have a weakness for redheads anyway.

If you need a friend to chat with, you are always welcome to visit me on my Blog Efilnikufecin69 or on that of my baby's [blog saint_lianna] .

Love and kisses{=}

efilnikufecin69 and saintlianna


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