Wishful thinking...massages etc.  

redhead_lass 38F
40 posts
5/31/2005 8:24 pm

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Wishful thinking...massages etc.

I miss being spoiled.

By no means am I a high maintenance woman, very independant and often stubborn actually. But now and again a girl likes to be treated like a goddess.

I can't recall the last time anyone gave me flowers. Even my last boyfriend - I mentioned that to him and his response.... Why do you want something that's just going to die in a few days. And then he looked at me like I was nuts! Hello, that's not the point, the point is the thought!

It's been quite some time since anyone treated me to dinner and a movie.

Or a GOOD massage. All the massages I've gotton lately are a brief squeeze on the shoulders (no boys, that's not a massage) and then they want to move on to other things. And why is it that guys don't understand the concept of massage oil? I'm tired of hearing... eww, I don't want to get my hands greasy. Well you don't use that much... and it gets absorbed into the skin, reduces friction (making it more pleasant for the both of us), and not to mention makes things quite sensual.

I make sure to keep a variety of oils on hand.... on the off chance I find someone who can actually give a massage. I mix my own, or buy them. I use essential oils with an almond and vitamin E oil base. Some of my favorites are Ylang Ylang, Chammomile, Orange/Ginger, and Sandalwood.

Oh well, rant over for now.


angelcoed1980 36F

5/31/2005 9:16 pm

AMEN!!! I don't think men know what romance is anymore. I understand and know all too well where you are coming from.

hiosilver007 49M
1 post
5/31/2005 9:22 pm

Hello lovely lady I would love to give you a massage with any or all kinds of oils dear. I love to rub and love to be rubbed.

rm_Elysia2005 43F
412 posts
5/31/2005 10:57 pm

KY now makes some lovely massage oils, unscented or in one of ... 4? 5?... scents. Very light, not too greasy, absorb well... Highly recommended.

lustmirror 63M
2897 posts
6/3/2005 6:31 pm

unfortunately, you are right. a large amount of the time, men, and women, aren't feeling the giving side of emotional love. Those early days of a relationship, when things are new, unknown, exciting, we tend to do those things, just happy to be around the other, with no thought of effort, or gain, really, at long as pleasure is achieved, and then the smile is great reward.
.....I guess the silver lining is, that if you indeed desire these things, it is a pretty clear indication when they don't happen, about the depth of the connection.
.....someone is out there...keep turning the page...

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