re phrase..question???  

redd4fun3279 48M/39F
5 posts
2/7/2006 3:33 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

re phrase..question???


It seems that when we are open and honest about what we are looking for in a female or a couple it makes them imbaressed,shy,spooked,or what ever the case may be.I guess my ? is how to aproach people you are interested in without making them uncomfortable...we have always been honest and upfront....not everybody takes ??????'s the same way. Looking for suggestions..Thanks.Pete and Lis.

rm_looking83401 59M

2/14/2006 4:20 pm

I know what you mean. As a single male just trying to get back into the lifestyle, I find it ALMOST impossible. Single males seem to be a blight on society. I am searching for a female of a couple to help but you just can't go up to people and say "Hey do you want to play?" ANY help or advice is welcome...from ANYONE.

Thanks,


rdy4u2rideallnit 51M/45F

2/16/2006 11:26 am

sometimes when we have been honest and open people have been put off by what we desire and hope for.... its a problem THEY have not you. we have found you have to wade thru alot before you find someone who is cool and accepting of what you want and they will appreciate your openess and honesty. sometimes it takes a lil bet of getting better aquainted before you share all of your dark secret exciting desires. be patient they will cummm in the mean time have fun with it and make friends and aquaintances..... mr RDY A>K>A> Lane


KelnAj 47M/43F

3/17/2006 7:35 am

we understand we are new to this so we tryed to be very respectful made a few tecno mishaps we either seem not forward enough or to hard to contact we have tried to keep our search mellow we do recive a variety of people contacting us we just cant seem to get expectations down of what people want honesty is the key for us and being paitent i guess but it has been a bit frustrating hang in there i think lots of people can identify with the complexitys of getting to know and trust others.Hope we all have breakthruoghs


energeticwife 44M/52F
2 posts
5/28/2006 3:05 pm

sweeet people after meeting you guys last night, you shouldnt change ANYTHING ! what a perfect, and honest approach, many of us NEED a real person, one who makes it clear they are intrtested,but you guys went further,you actually" asked what if?"and" what are your expectations?".Did you see how easily I(C.J.) responded to your Mrs.questions?and were virginal material in this jaundra.you both damn fine looking people( your pict."don't do you justice")and smart(no dumb bunnys here!).we just hope your going to enjoy us as much as we are hopeing to enjoy you!


whatshewants69 48M

6/12/2006 1:17 pm

Well lis, we are very happy to have met you, your coming up to our table and inviting us for a drink was comforting, we stalled a little and tried to find you sooner but anyhow it worked out. Being new to this scene, neither of us knew what it was that you wanted;her, me, or both!?! Both of us thought you were sweet and cute but we weren't sure of your intentions.SOOO that being said, your being upfront and inviting was a very smooth way to break the ice, but maybe if you had asked us the right questions then we would have "pursued" some interests.Lol. J n P.(glacier) Hope to see you again.


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