Guys and oral sex.....  

realcurvywoman 35F
259 posts
11/20/2005 11:48 am

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Guys and oral sex.....

Why does it seem like you have all these guys on here who claim to love to give oral sex but when you actually meet them they don't give it? I'm like most women, I love to receive oral sex but I also love to give as much as I like to receive, but I haven't met a guy who will reciprocate yet. They all love it when I do it, and I've made it very clear how much I love it, but still nothing. Do you guys just say this to get us girls to give you oral? Are there that many girls that don't like to give oral that you have to tease them into giving it to you by telling them how much you'll get them off if they get you off first? Hmmm, perhaps I'll have to try the "you do me, then I'll do you" approach. But it's so hard to stop myself from doing it first, I don't know if that'll work..........darn it. What's up guys? Explain this to me.........

franz4erotica 66M
1 post
11/20/2005 12:39 pm

I do it ...promise!!!!

ReReleasedToWild 38M
1 post
11/20/2005 12:50 pm

Personally I am one of the men who say and mean I lOVE GIVING AND RECIEVING ORAL SEX!!!!! I think it is sexxxy and the BIGGEST turn on. I just had to let it be known that there are lots of guys with oral fixations and Im one that couldnt live with out it!!

bigfurrybear 41M

11/20/2005 1:02 pm

Well curvy I can't speak for anyone else. I am honest and I love to eat pussy. I usually go after you first and spoil you with tongue and fingers until you are begging me to stop. I love it.


11/20/2005 1:04 pm


When some guys say they like to give it they actually secretly think that it's more like a household chore. In your case you are probably right in that he only said he liked it to win your sexual favor. And then bailed on you and your fun once he got his.

Have him do you first next time. That's the proper etiquette protocol anyway "ladies cum first". He must have ditched sex and romance class that day. And if he's not aroused in the least while giving you the velvet tongue tornado there's a good chance he's not really enjoying it that much.

I have this opinion though that you either you like doing it or you don't and rarely do people change their view on that. Again (for me at least) underscoring the great value of someone having a true and genuine enthusiasm for it.

And this guy obviously don't.

Good luck finding a guy who does though. They are out there.


PS. I knew a guy once who would sometimes complain to me about having to orally please his GF. I now clearly recall him stating... "every time we have sex she has to have a freakin' orgasm!". So I said to him "well how would you feel if you didn't have one whenever you had sex?".

He then just sat there with a semi stupefied look on his face and said nothing.


realcurvywoman 35F

11/20/2005 1:55 pm

I agree that either you like doing it or you don't. I'm not sure why anyone wouldn't like doing, but oh well. We all have our different opinions on what fun is, and I definitely think giving and receiving oral is very fun I just need to find someone nearby that agrees with me! I haven't given up yet.......

Any other ladies run into this problem too? Or is it just me?

sdcock2005 39M

11/21/2005 11:00 pm

Curvey like any other guy I love to get my cock sucked. But the easiest way to make the (lucky) man that you choose to prove it too you. Is make him go down on you first before you give him the pleasure of sliding his cock in your mouth

hawk1t 48M

11/24/2005 2:07 am

i personally love to start off by giving oral to a woman and see how many times i can make her cum before she cant take it anymore and screams fuck me now. I actually rarely get it in return as when everything is said and done, we are both just plain out of energy, not necessarily a bad thing. I do find that woman really like the "clean up" thing after you cum in them, especially when you bring some up to their mouth with your tongue.

tweeker67 47M

11/26/2005 2:12 pm

simple solution.. 69

realcurvywoman 35F

11/26/2005 3:38 pm

Good call

snowman0808 44M
6 posts
12/19/2005 6:48 pm

My guess is this......if he is not willing to go down on you he is not attracted to you and is only looking to "get off" and does not care about what you get in return.....sorry for the brutal honesty.

Uninhibited1972 44M

1/15/2006 5:41 pm

If you do find yourself giving first, make sure your turn doesn't just get overlooked. Spell it out explicitly and get yours before moving on to other activities. Since women can have multiple orgasms, you should be climaxing from oral at least once before him anyway.

rm_lwhiowa 71M
260 posts
1/18/2006 10:05 pm

I don't know why guys do that. If I promise something I deliver. I expect no less in return. Sorry you are having problems.

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