Picture this!  

rbestgurl 55F
74 posts
10/10/2005 7:55 pm

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Picture this!

I have to say that I am a little put off...okay, okay, don't have a picture up yet but I am working on it...but a least I tried to find something interesting and tasteful to put up until we decide what the pic should be...(see accompanying pic)

I am a little shy, at least until I get to know you and you know me...but geeesh...AdultFriendFinder in their infinite wisdom denied my tasteful picture and so now I am left once again with the stock photo, standard to all who become active participants in AdultFriendFinder land....but I have a dilemma…so maybe you can help me out….

One…having teenagers who are curious as teens will be, and I encourage a certain amount of discovery but know they would be so shocked to find there “square” mom on such a site…now being a grown up, free, and twenty-one and open to what ever consenting adults are open too…am okay, but not to have them find a pic of me online! No amount of therapy would begin to smooth that over…And while I am intrigued by the various displays of genitalia, coitus and male phallic specimens I think that I prefer a more subtle approach…along the line of less is more if you will…

Don’t you think that part of the mystery is in the wrapping? I will give props to the following for originality and what I think is just the right amount of eroticism. These examples spur me on to creating and conveying the right mood, so I will continue on my quest of the “right” picture. Besides I will be at the ball…maybe something can be arranged there? Dano?

Here is my list of “ohhh” profile pics, and while I have expressed my desire to explore my “bi” side, I like these profile pics because they are tasteful and I believe reflect the class of the women they portray….

So, not in any particular order…just think they are…ART.

[bella_]- Yikes…very erotic…you are a babe…
[BLONDENEEDSSEX] ‒ definitely the less is more route…
[DefiniteTrouble] ‒ I could only dream of filling cups like you do…

There is one that I have seen….the gal with the black bra and one erect right nipple peaking out from under the lace....very sensual….again…less is more…

Gentlemen…while I have not explored the entire AdultFriendFinder site…these men show true personality, which make them sooooo sexy and desirable…..

[luke69iner] ‒ Love a man in a black tie (up)!
[travelingintexas] ‒ You have imagination and wit to spare, everyday is an adventure...

And of course…my absolute favorite…

[dano6332]…To know him is to love him and I do…as often as possible!

Really…there is so much more to you then your dicks…really…put them away and give us gals something to contemplate…I hate to say this…but men aren’t that attractive naked…some of you may disagree…but really be honest…have you ever done a search…dicks..dicks… and more dicks….yawn…

I have to hand it (pun intended) to the males who actually put a picture of themselves doing something beside dropping trou and hanging on for dear life…There really is more to you…keep a secret and make us work for it a little bit…humor is good…

So…any suggestions?

RailBaron2 54M

10/10/2005 9:07 pm

Hi rbestgurl,I like a face pic myself,I like to "look into the face of the woman I'm talking to in real life, the same is true with blogs, As a standard member I cannot read your profile ,When I started Bloging I figured it might be true both ways so I posted a profile on my blog, I don't post any nude shots of myself online,best sugestion I can give is be honest & be yourself. Jim

ILnaughtyboy 45M
12 posts
10/11/2005 12:11 pm


If I read you correctly, you would not be comfortable with a face shot (kids thing right?) so here is my advice. Take your most attrative feature, and be a tease with it. If it's your eyes just do a picture of your eyes looking lustful, or do pouty lips. If it's your legs dress in something provacative and have the pic be of your ankles to your thighs. If it's you're breasts, do something similar to that which you named (i.e. the black bra) just remember, the hint or suggestion of nudity is often more seductive than the stare you in the face vaginal or dick pic.

It's also seductive to feel like you got a naughty peek at something you shouldn't so a reflection in the mirror of a nice asset or seeing the nice body part through some kind of shear material would be nice.

God luck, and send me the pic when you finally make a decision.

rbestgurl 55F

10/11/2005 7:41 pm


that IS the best suggestion, thanks so much for visiting my blog...i am wondering why you can't see other profiles...i am a standard member and have not problems seeing profiles..granted, not everything...but enough..

rbestgurl 55F

10/11/2005 7:43 pm

ILnaughtyboy, think that i will have a little photo shoot and see what i can come up with...thanks for visiting!


10/12/2005 12:14 am

Why thankyou for your compliment. I`m sure with 3 professional photograpers at the convention I can put a word or two in their ear for you to have some tasteful pics done and have fun at the same time.
I know I have agreed to do an photo shoot for them of yes the less is more type.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/12/2005 6:10 am

Thanks for the compliment. It was just a random quick shot taken at the pc...sometimes those are the best kind. (Yes, they're 100% natural...for now, lol.)

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/12/2005 6:13 am

BTW...the dick pics don't thrill me at all. Have to wonder how many are enhanced a la photoshop. You can only look at so many before they become "blah." I'd rather there be something left to the imagination. My fav posted pic is of five_speed curled up in bed. Of course. Nothing naughty...just him being him.

dano6332 56M

10/14/2005 12:07 pm

Trav if this is true what does that say about our friend 5?

rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
10/26/2005 9:49 am

In the words of Billy Crystal..."You look mahvolous."

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