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quoteoftheday 47M
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2/23/2006 7:42 pm

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So here we are. It's a Thursday evening in the twilight of February. I am eagerly anticipating the spring. I met an absolutely beautiful woman today and have thought about her exactly three times and am kicking myself for not getting her number. She works out at a local gym so hopefully we will cross paths again soon.

My apartment is semi-clean. I have a contract that I need to bid on tomorrow morning at 9 a.m. and show no signs of giving a shit whether or not I get the job because I still have to prepare my portfolio. Well, in exactly 17 minutes I will get cracking on that presentation.

For now I am contemplating just why I decided to take out a membership on this site. What do I hope to accomplish. Will I meet anyone? And what are my expectations for being on this system.

First, I want to be absolutely faithful to what it is that I seek and be honest about my desires and fantasies. If they happen to become a reality then great and if not well there was no harm done ‒ except to my pocket book. So it would seem that truth is an essential element for being out here. Leave nothing to the imagination. Check. Don’t worry too much about the end result. Check. Treat others exactly as you expect to be treated. Check.
Have some fun. Check. Try some new things. Check. Play safely. Check. Be realistic about time commitments. Check. Do no harm. Check. Make some new friends. Check.

ella1966 50F
1528 posts
2/23/2006 9:36 pm

Hello quote!

Well said. Welcome to the "cliquey" community that is Blogland. People are nice, but it is a bit of an "exclusive" club, but that may be me being my ultra-sensitive self!! You are on the late train a bit, if your membership expires in June, but you never know what ground you can make up. My Blogs are looked at in passing, but no-one drops in, I rarely get a reply, albeit a thoughtful reply. Are the top bloggers on here arrogant? - methinks so, but that is just my opinion. Most people just read to be nosey, including myself at times. That's human nature I'm afraid.

Go easy on the "check", you may turn yourself into someone paranoid. Relax a bit. You can make rules and follow procedure, but sometimes you have to throw caution to the wind. I did because I was compelled to and got severely bitten in the bum.

Anyway, you have mail.


LovelyLadyLumpzz 40F

2/24/2006 7:46 am

Hey, Welcome.

I just wanted to say that when there is something specific that you are looking for, and obviously you are since you noticed the girl at your gym, you shouldn't limit yourself. You should join places like this and go and ask the girl for her number. Never limit yourself and sit back and think that things will come to you. You have to go out and find it. And even if you don't find it, be happy with yourself that you did all that you possibly could do to find it. So I just want to wish you good luck, sometimes this site can be discouraging for males, but keep at it keep intelligent and keep interesting and people will want to learn more.

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