Need some opinions.....  

queenpeach 47M/40F
36 posts
5/18/2005 11:51 am

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Need some opinions.....

Today is the first day in quite some time that I have logged into my account on AdultFriendFinder. I think it's really neat that there has been a blog started. Blogs seem to be the new thing these days, so I figured I'd get one of my own. I hope that there is someone out there bored enough to read mine.

So, here's my first story:

The other night my husband and I went to bed. I was feeling horny, so I stripped naked (as I do most every night) and climbed into bed beside him. I curled up next to him and started rubbing on his back and legs and asked him if he wanted to fuck me. His answer...."No, I'm too tired." What a bummer. I waited a few minutes, turned on some porn, and broke out the "Blue Dong" and started pumping it in and out of my pussy. I figured all of the movement in the bed would cause him to get horny and roll over so that we could get it on, but I was mistaken.

I pumped that dong in and out of my wet pussy, you probably hear it slushing down the block. I was laying in bed naked, next to my snoring husband, watching porn....what a wonderful life, huh? Either way, I masturbated until I got off and then I rolled over and went to sleep myself out of sheer aggrivation.

Wanna know the best part? The next night he comes to bed, lays down and starts snoring again. This, by the way, is getting really tiresome. I laid there, naked again, watching TV until almost 11o'clock and then I started dozing off. About the time I started dozing off, I feel him rambling around in the bed beside me. He rolls over to me and starts asking me if I want to fuck. My answer? "No, I'm going to sleep." So he starts whacking off beside me, obviously thinking this action will get me all hot and bothered (which it certainly was). He asks me again if I want to do it. My answer again, "No, I said I'm tired and I'm going to sleep." So then he asks me if I'll atleast squeeze his balls while he jacks off - Again, I tell him no, and hand him a towel to whack off in. I told him I didn't see him doing me any favors the night before, so why should I?

I know it sounds mean, but paybacks are a bitch. Anybody out there agree with me that that was only fair?? Maybe he'll learn his lesson and not turn me down next time.

CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
5/18/2005 12:16 pm

its not mean at all, you are totally in the right 100% He's your hubby and as the Husband he should be the one to satisfy his wife not a toy or video. I know your just venting, yet a suggestion might be is to talk about these bed issues during the day instead of when your both exhausted and ones horny and the other isnt...a suggestion might be is write down your thoughts and issue titles on paper, and just talk about them, and when the both of you get red headed and start fighting and totally forget what the issue was, you have this list to keep yourself on glad you blogged and keep us posted. -CuteAZguy27

rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
5/18/2005 12:28 pm

I'll fuck my wife anytime. She has woke me at 4 in the morning because she couldn't sleep.Yes I fucked without question. My advice to you darling is communicate. You have porn so I'm going to assume that you have some kind of sex life. Maybe you could try getting into bed earlier so you have time for sex and still get to sleep at a reasonable time. Or hold out until he's about to go crazy and then make a deal with him, he gets it when he wants and you get it when you want. Fair is fair.

queenpeach 47M/40F

5/18/2005 12:47 pm

The communication in the relationship is not the problem. Neither is getting to bed on time. We go to bed between 8 and 10 most nights. We have plenty of time, but once his head hits the pillow, that's all she wrote.

Of course, he called me from work about 15 minutes ago and asked me if I was going to fuck him tonight. My response..."If you can stay awake long enough." He's just been so tired lately, but going to bed earlier doesn't help at all because once he's in the bed, he goes straight to sleep. It's such a pain in the ass.

And yes, we have some sex life. We pay $28 a month for a 24/7 XXX channel and love it. Sometimes it's the only way I can get him interested in having sex. I used to not have a problem getting him interested in me, but lately it takes a movie to get him going. I just don't understand it. I'm not ugly. I'm very sexual and will do almost anything he wants - anal is my exception because last time I let him do it, he was too rough and didn't want to stop. Any other suggestions???

NightOfPassion2 58M

5/18/2005 12:51 pm

Its hard, being married and for several years not quite in sync sexually (wife was way hotter....). But now....much more even keel...and talking about sex helped...even to mention when we were frustrated from lack of desire (on each others parts).

To me payback is fair (possibly) if the guy/gal doesnt have to mind read why the payback. Usually my wife will tell why the no (Kids put her in bad mood, I was reall late from work, etc).

kissablemeinmn 48F

5/18/2005 12:56 pm

I think you were totally within you rights to do what you did. Been there done that with my husband too many times to count. I have found that wrapping my lips around his cock is a great way to ask if he's interested in some fun -and never get turned down.

Best of luck. I think the previous commentors have some good advise.


queenpeach 47M/40F

5/18/2005 2:01 pm

I'd like to think that wrapping my lips around his cock is a surefire way to get laid, but that doesn't work. When he says no, he rolls over on his side and tucks it away. He's learned that I'll keep trying even when he says no, so he has started to cover all options. Hopefully tonight, since he turned me down once and I turned him down once, we'll hook up and it will make it that much hotter. There are so many things that I want to do to him right now. I've been thinking about it all day at work and it's got me super HOTTT!!!

If it's anything good, I'll be sure to post it on here tomorrow!!

44 posts
5/23/2005 9:12 pm

Iagree with what you did, the behaviour that you described was very selfish indeed and "turnabout is fair play", "what's good for the goose is good for the gander" and all those other cliche phrases that would apply.

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