Last night was no better!  

queenpeach 47M/40F
36 posts
5/19/2005 8:28 am

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Last night was no better!

I would like to post that last night was better, but it really wasn't. The evening got started off great. He came in from work and was kissing all over my neck and feeling me up every chance he got. We got pretty hot and heavy in the kitchen before dinner while the kids were upstairs playing.
After dinner was finished, we had an errand to run, so we did that and came straight home. When we got home, we gave the kids their snack and sent them on up to bed. As soon as they were in bed, he turned off the lights in the living room and turned on The Channel and came over to me. He lifted up my shirt and started squeezing my tits. Then, he pulled his shorts down and pulled out his dick as he straddled across me so that I could watch him stroking his cock. I asked him if that was all he was going to do with that thing, and he informed that he had been sweating all day at work - otherwise, he would make me suck it. So instead I put my hand around his cock and stroked it some myself. I stopped for a minute and took my shirt and bra off and released my tits from their confines. His eyes got bright because he knew what I had in mind...then I asked him if I let him fuck my titties if he promised that we'd do it again when we went upstairs to bed after our shower. He, of course, said yes, so I let him start titty-fucking me. He fucked my titties hard until he blew his load all over them. Then we got up and watched a little bit of TV.
Now what happens when we go upstairs? I got in the shower expecting him to come get in with me like he normally does when he's feeling frisky. Does he? I wash and get out and get dried off and into bed - naked. He gets in the shower after I lie down, so I'm laying there thinking about all the things that I want to do to him when he comes to bed. I'm flipping the channels between The Channel and American Idol of all things (had to see who was going home). I was so damn horny when he got in the bed. I muted the TV to make sure the kids were sleeping snug in their beds - and they were. So, when he got out of the shower and came to bed, I started rubbing up against him, nibbling his ears, kissing him, stroking his body with my hands and cupping his dick with my hands.
Now, you probably are thinking that this is going to lead to some great sex after the build-up and the previous night??? Well, you're wrong. He tells me he doesn't like me kissing him because it makes his mouth dry. I, completely turned off by the comment, rolled over and laid on my back. He proceeds to tell me that in the seven years we've been together that he has never liked being kissed. I, in turn, inform him that he has always played along before and I sometimes do things that I don't neccessarily like just because it makes him happy. Well, this ended the night. He told me not to get mad, so I told him that I wasn't. Then he rolled over and went to sleep. THE FUCKING NERVE!!! Then he tells me this morning that he doesn't know what happened last night.
I don't know what happened last night either, but after the comment that he made, I just couldn't go on with it. Kissing turns me on just as much as getting oral performed on me, and probably more. It is such an intimate form of affection, and I have always enjoyed it. He, on the other hand, just wants to fuck and be done with it. We used to be such compatible lovers - he always put my needs ahead of his and wouldn't cum until after he knew I did. He has turned into the most selfish lover that I've ever had - It's his way, or no way at all. I guess it's time to sit down and seriously take a look at the sexual relationship that we have. Other than the sex, we get along great. He's a great man, he's a terrific father, but he is lacking in the sack (something that he never used to do). I told him this morning that we are going to have to do something because I just don't enjoy being intimate with him anymore because I never get anything out of it.
I guess I'll update again later if anything new happens. Meanwhile, I'll be reading other posts that make me super-hot and horny so that I can think about the things that I would like to be doing, but probably won't be.

kissablemeinmn 48F

5/19/2005 9:37 am

OMG I could have written this myself. Have written something similar recently even. I'm with you - I need kissing. Lots of it! But I don't get it I do, however, get great sex. I guess I shouldn't complain.

I'm sorry sweetie I wish I had some magic words to tell you to make things all the way you want them to be. I totall understand and feel your frustration, if that helps at all.

At least you are comfortable taking care of business yourself so you aren't totally unsatisfied

Best of luck to you!

abradagain 54M
70 posts
5/19/2005 9:58 am

Don't give him his till you get yours. I always enjoy it more after the woman has cum. It makes me relax and enjoy it knowing I don't have the pressure to make her cum. So I can cum whenever the urge hits. Of course if she's in the mood we just go again.

DBolt69 46M
18 posts
5/19/2005 10:19 am

I completely sympathize with you, Depraved. My wife and I had a baby a little over a year ago, and she has been breastfeeding him. While I am all for the benefits of the breastfeeding, her libido has hit about zero. We rarely have sex anymore, and when we do, it is almost as if she is doing me a favor. Sex with my wife used to be mind-blowing, and we would fuck and suck for hours. I like kissing, I love both giving and receiving foreplay, and I really miss it.

I hope that your relationship gets better!


queenpeach 47M/40F

5/19/2005 10:29 am

We have talked several times in the past about bringing another man into the mix - both because I'd like to be with two men and because he has showed interest in being with a man himself. I think he is scared that I will think he is gay or something because that's the furtherest he has ever went with it. I told him once before if he'll bring somebody home, we'll do the deed. He seems to get more turned on talking to me when we are playing around with our toys about me being with two men than when we just have normal sex. It just gets weird for us every once in a while because it seems like he's just not interested in me no matter what I do.

I've told him a hundred times that there are a lot of men that would kill for a wife like me that wants sex EVERY day of the week. I'm very open to most things - anal excluded based on previous experiences - and will try or do most anything. I tell you it's heartbreaking that after marriage I get less sex than I did when I was single. You would think that being with one person all the time, you'd be able to get it any time you please, but that's just not the case.

I'm working up some erotic writings for one of my next posts. I love to write, but I would love some ideas for a story line if you have any. Looking forward to hearing from you.

DBolt69 46M
18 posts
5/20/2005 7:53 am

Why don't you write about what you would like to happen (best-case) if you could bring somebody into your relationship? Play the fantasy out in your head, and let us know about it. Maybe your husband is struggling with some of his feelings towards the idea. Maybe if you shared what you think could happen, he might be more comfortable with it. At least I hope so. Your husband is lucky that he has a wife that desires sex. You sound like a very special woman.

queenpeach 47M/40F

5/20/2005 12:00 pm

My husband is the one that originally brought the idea into the bedroom. Before he started talking it out, telling me exactly what we would do and how it would happen, I had never thought about being with two men at the same time.

I am working on writing the exotic story. I've been putting it together in my head. I'm also in the process of writing two speeches for school (graduating with AAT June 17) that have to be videotaped and sent in. I'll get around to it soon though, especially since I'm more interested in writing about sex than writing an informative speech and a persuasive speech. I know - I'll write a speech persuading people into exploring their sexual appetites!!!

(Juan S)
2642 posts
8/4/2005 10:32 am

In your position you should probably not read...sizzle364. That might be a little too much.

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