Whats the problem people??????????????????  

quaree69 37M
8 posts
8/24/2005 9:24 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Whats the problem people??????????????????

Why is it that alot of ladies on AdultFriendFinder want to know all about a person b4 they decide to have sex? I dont get that what happened to one night stands? I thoght that if you find a person attractive and you are indeed thinkin on a sexual note that you guys just do it, not you attempt to learn what grade school they went to. I feel like this the more questions you ask a person the more opportunities you are giving them to lie. I dont want to know anything but the basics, and if i decide to take it further than only questions of interest will be asked that way you dont bring up nothing in that persons past to ruin the persons mood.Maybe thats just how I feel, if you guys feel differently then let me know and help me to understand better why we need to know about a persons whole life just to have sex.


Looking4mor1000 51F

8/24/2005 1:09 pm

These women want to know they are not having sex with some degenerate freak I can only guess? Also subconciously want a relationship. Just tell them upfront you just want a willing orafice for your dick? or something along those lines? or maybe you should just get a "working " woman? too cheap for that I bet..


quaree69 37M
17 posts
8/25/2005 5:46 pm

That is understanding and all but you maybe you miss understood what i meant its cool to make sure the person isn't crazy and all but if they already know that a person is lookin to only have sex with you and know strings attached then it should be just that. By you making it seem as if you only want to have sex with that person then later acting as if you are fallin in love only causes problems for yourself. Please dont just ASSume you know what i am talkin about when you dont. As far as the being to cheap for a "working" woman i wouldn't care if she worked or not as long as we see eye to eye about what is going on it shouldn't matter. Oh by the way I am working on my BA in social work and work for T-mobil & Foot locker so believe me i am far from cheap if i wanted to have a woman that i treated to food, trips, and other couple like activities i would ask for that but i dont want that i have no kiids and an apartment in two different cities so i am doing pretty well. Thank you anyway for your feed back


quaree69 37M
17 posts
8/25/2005 5:48 pm

Ladies and please don't act as if its not as many crazy females as there are men cause you are ohhhh so wrong


quaree69 37M
17 posts
8/31/2005 11:40 am

anything you want to be up asianlady4love would you like to contact me or me contact you


24KARATEPUSSYTEE 37F

12/13/2005 9:49 am

like the other said, yes its alot of crazy people on here and i have met a few, i mean if something happens at least you have something to go on if you need to find that person, i dont think its realtionship wise because i ask questions and it doesnt mean i want a relationship just some understanding of a person i am giving my body to.


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