On Friendship  

qship52 63M
187 posts
4/14/2006 2:16 am

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On Friendship

There are lots of types of friendships.

There is your 'buddy' friendship. Better than just being an acquaintance, but limited in depth & scope. Most friendships are of this type.

I'm working on what has become a 'deep' friendship. One where you bare your souls to each other, where you can communicate without speaking, where you really, really like each other's company.

But it's not yet a 'true' friendship.

For me, a true friendship can only be earned one way - over time. With shared experiences. I don't know how long, but years may be required.

True friends are rare. Work to make them, and treat them like gold.

freetime648 52F

4/14/2006 5:21 am

Nice post......I have had friends come and go but none have been "TRUE" friends.....one day maybe...

xx FREETIME648 xx

qship52 replies on 4/14/2006 8:17 am:
Sometimes you reconnect with someone you knew a long time ago, and rekindle a friendship. Think about someone you knew for years, but haven't talked to in a long time, and make contact again.

Allsleeky 35F

4/14/2006 7:54 am

A real friend will always be there for you no matter the circumstances!

qship52 replies on 4/14/2006 3:22 pm:
Agreed, 100%

free2chose2 66F

4/14/2006 12:16 pm

smiling back

Don't worry, be Happy

qship52 replies on 4/14/2006 4:13 pm:
I really liked the last paragraph of that blog you wrote. So I was just smiling.

free2chose2 66F

4/14/2006 1:52 pm

you know that smile back wasn't enough, I came to AdultFriendFinder with issues and gradually am sorting them out and have met "true" friends along the way, even if I'm difficult at times.

Don't worry, be Happy

qship52 replies on 4/14/2006 3:23 pm:
I'd say I came to AdultFriendFinder with issues as well, and am also sorting things out.

There are some pretty interesting people here, eh? Seems the quickest ways to get to know them is by reading the blogs, even if you only get to know them vicariously in most cases.

caressmewell 53F

4/14/2006 9:46 pm

I have yet to have any TRUE friends...sigh

qship52 replies on 4/15/2006 5:12 pm:
You are young yet - there's plenty of time.

I missed a lot of opportunities because of being an Army brat and moving every year or so when growing up. My true friends date from college.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
4/15/2006 5:39 am

This is oh so true.......I am blessed to have a few true friends.

Purry {=}


qship52 replies on 4/15/2006 5:12 pm:
Let them know!

free2chose2 66F

4/16/2006 11:18 am

thank you for the compliment on that paragraph, I did get alittle carried away

Don't worry, be Happy

qship52 replies on 4/16/2006 2:22 pm:
Perhaps you should let yourself get carried away more often?

free2chose2 66F

4/17/2006 9:02 am

where's the "calgon"

Don't worry, be Happy

qship52 replies on 4/17/2006 8:11 pm:
It's within you. You can take yourself away whenever you want to. Just unleash the power of your imagination. I've read several of your blogs, and you don't seem to have much problem doing just that.

BUT, if you just want to enjoy some sudsy fun, you can visit the Calgon website, which I'll post here, but which I suspect will be edited out by AdultFriendFinder - www.takemeaway.com - (Gotta give a kudo to someone smart enough to register takemeaway for a web site!)

free2chose2 66F

4/19/2006 7:17 am

-sounds like a magic carpet, lol

Don't worry, be Happy

free2chose2 66F

4/22/2006 8:02 am

sounds like a" magic carpet' my previous post back with the .com addy was deleted/banned-you've brought smiles to me also

Don't worry, be Happy

qship52 replies on 4/24/2006 2:01 am:
Glad to brighten someone's day!

Weird about what gets cut out of blogs sometimes. I've posted the abreviation A F F (<-three letters were originally written here, in case it gets changed), only to have AdultFriendFinder mysteriously written in its place. I once tried to post a reference in a reply to a web site which happens to provide an online map service, only to that URL simply deleted, leaving a substantial hole in the sentence!

free2chose2 66F

4/24/2006 5:00 am

well a ray of sunlight shone thru

Don't worry, be Happy

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