Living a dual life  

qship52 63M
187 posts
6/1/2006 8:02 am

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6/4/2006 12:33 pm

Living a dual life

Here I sit, one morning at my girlfriend's house, reading blogs on AdultFriendFinder.

She's asleep in the bedroom, and I'm hoping she gets lots of rest. Sometimes she has a bad night because of my snoring.

I'll go back home, and work out of my home office later.

I hope my youngest daughter comes over to help me do some filing. I need to see her.

It's been 6 months since I moved out. Divorce is not yet filed. I have a girlfriend (VERY close), and basically a new life. I met my girl here on AdultFriendFinder.

So many people know about my girlfriend, but not (I assume) my wife and kids. I want to tell them, but not until I file divorce papers.

I'm not happy living this dual life. I don't like secrets like this.

Are you living a dual life too? Maybe just because of being on AdultFriendFinder? Do your friends and relatives know you are a member? What would happen if it was common knowledge?

alchemistz9 57M

6/1/2006 9:40 am

Hi gship52,

I'm recently separated, not in a relationship at the moment. As far as I'm aware, nobody knows I'm on AdultFriendFinder, but it's not an issue.

I can appreciate with a new g/f your situation is different.

If my membership became common knowledge I don't think much would happen - people would gossip and laugh a bit maybe, I'd be embarrassed for a while, and that would be it.

The only thing I'm not sure about, and would worry about, is how my kids would take it.

qship52 replies on 6/1/2006 6:22 pm:
Yeah, if my kids knew about AdultFriendFinder, it could get .... even more interesting than life has been lately. Don't need that!

sexyariesgirl 57F

6/1/2006 4:32 pm

Nope...friends and family have NO idea I'm here..I hope! lol It could be embarassing for me in many ways, so I try to keep this part of my life private. Until yesterday I was living a dual life in a Sweet Baby was still officially we were very restricted in our activities. But now the divorce is final (THANK GOD) and we can at least go out in public together. I feel like I've been freed from prison in a way! Of course many people in our small town already knew about our relationship, but we didn't flaunt it out of respect for his children and his ex. I hope your daughter comes over to help out...I know you miss your children know you are in my thoughts!

Power To FOK

qship52 replies on 6/1/2006 6:24 pm:
Both my daughters came over for a bit today, with my younger one staying and doing filing. (Will continue again tomorrow). She even made lunch for me!

It was nice. After she did 2 hours of filing, we just got on the computers here and played Serious Sam 2. Kind of like old times.

I think once things get settled again, with divorce done, kids settled into some new house somewhere, we may just be able to get some sort of normality. I hope they don't mind that I've found someone else in my life, and get along with her.

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