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Living a dual life
Living a dual life
Here I sit, one morning at my girlfriend's house, reading blogs on AdultFriendFinder.
She's asleep in the bedroom, and I'm hoping she gets lots of rest. Sometimes she has a bad night because of my snoring.
I'll go back home, and work out of my home office later.
I hope my youngest daughter comes over to help me do some filing. I need to see her.
It's been 6 months since I moved out. Divorce is not yet filed. I have a girlfriend (VERY close), and basically a new life. I met my girl here on AdultFriendFinder.
So many people know about my girlfriend, but not (I assume) my wife and kids. I want to tell them, but not until I file divorce papers.
I'm not happy living this dual life. I don't like secrets like this.
Are you living a dual life too? Maybe just because of being on AdultFriendFinder? Do your friends and relatives know you are a member? What would happen if it was common knowledge?
6/1/2006 9:40 am
I'm recently separated, not in a relationship at the moment. As far as I'm aware, nobody knows I'm on AdultFriendFinder, but it's not an issue.
I can appreciate with a new g/f your situation is different.
If my membership became common knowledge I don't think much would happen - people would gossip and laugh a bit maybe, I'd be embarrassed for a while, and that would be it.
The only thing I'm not sure about, and would worry about, is how my kids would take it.
6/1/2006 4:32 pm
Nope...friends and family have NO idea I'm here..I hope! lol It could be embarassing for me in many ways, so I try to keep this part of my life private. Until yesterday I was living a dual life in a way...my Sweet Baby was still officially married..so we were very restricted in our activities. But now the divorce is final (THANK GOD) and we can at least go out in public together. I feel like I've been freed from prison in a way! Of course many people in our small town already knew about our relationship, but we didn't flaunt it out of respect for his children and his ex. I hope your daughter comes over to help out...I know you miss your children terribly....you know you are in my thoughts!|
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