Hostility in chat room & blog threads  

qikdic4u 67M
3 posts
11/19/2005 5:36 pm

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Hostility in chat room & blog threads

This is not intended as a rant, but is there anyone else experiencing hostle attacks from fellow members out there? Having covered rooms around the globe I've had numerous episodes of insults, rivaling and crase rudness by several small minded and inmature individuals. I doubt I'm alone, as I have sat by and witnessed the pissing contests between males and females alike. Slinging mud, and diatribe, as if this is the way life is to be normaly conducted.

Part of the Terms & Conditions of this site it to maintan a civil decorum amoungst one another. So, for those who have their heads up their ass, get a clue. If you take them out, you would see the world isn't as shitty as you might think it to be. If you have issues, don;t take it out on everyone else. None of us here are qualified to deal with 'em. Get the help you need from the proper sources. but if your here to have some fun, and make or FINDFRIENDS, let's do that and not hurt each other in the process. Life's too short to make each other miserable by bringing us down in the hole your in.

Would like to hear of some of the negitive experiences others have experienced in their Xmatch membership. I'm sure we have some unique stories to tell Perhaps we all could learn from it in the process...
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rm_lickmepretty 51F
851 posts
11/21/2005 2:57 am

Hi, welcome to blog!

Are you aware there is a new group created for bloggers and their readership to meet and frolic in the chat room? (A place for serious discussion as well)

A group where interesting blog posts will be “spot-lighted” along with the links of how to get there. A place where new kids on the block can actually get seen as well as the predominant “hierarchy”.

A place where ideas can flow--from suggested blog topics, to writing "critiques", to directions on how to better use the elements of color, photos, and font style/size to make your blog more eye appealing; as well as instructions on how to better use linking to other posts.

Being that this is an adult site, we will also have a group post running where writers and their followers can indicate where they're from so maybe you might actually be able to meet some folk "local" to you.

Flirtatious banter is encouraged--crude obscene assaults will not be tolerated and are subject to deletion.

So...Stop in and have a little fun over your cup o' joe!

Here is a link to the group Blog Cafe, look forward to meeting you there!

qikdic4u 67M
29 posts
11/23/2005 1:42 pm

Thanks, lickmepretty.
Appreciate the input, will certainly try your suggestion and join in the cafe'. Don't know 'bout necessity of font/photo alterations. Reading what's placed onto the page is the matter at hand - as a designer of graphics and a photographer for many years, I understand the value of "visual impact". But, it's the WORDS that are what is in the message, and the medium. Not the artistry. Yes, I've seen the pretty blogs on the site, and am impressed. But, I get paid for that, and takes more time then I can spare. Will consider the suggestion nonetheless should time permit. Thanks again, I'll look forward to our dialogue in the cafe'. Be well my sweets, and enjoy the Blessing of the upcoming Holidays. J.

qikdic4u 67M
29 posts
12/2/2005 8:00 am

I've noticed numerous of you logging into this thread... but none (save one, lickmepretty) seems to wish to apply any comments, efforts, or positve suggestions. What's up with that??? My malcontentment here isn't intended to offend, or be off-putting, but an obsevation and an opportunity, which need be addressed... especially if there of you who are experiencing this problem. And ther must be, or you wouldn't link-up to the thread. This isn't for me alone my friends. Again, the "personal" imput or impressions of others can potentially create a more positive dynamic and result..... between us all.

Peace, J.

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