I was using u!!!  

pusifetish 35F
39 posts
6/5/2005 4:35 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

I was using u!!!

My boyfriend of 5 years told me yesterday not directly that he was using me! He actually said that after a break in our relationship that he requested and GOT he only took me back because he wanted someone to take care of his daughter AND when I said I came back because he said that his life was incomplete without me he said "no I did not say that and I would never say that because you dont mean the world to me"
people dont hearwords like that unless they aresaid !!!!!
He finally saidheprobably said so but he maybejust wanted some pussy!!!!
I would have taken care of his daughter for him if hehad ask!
I would have given him pussy if he had ask !

bella_ 47F
4030 posts
6/5/2005 11:44 am

That is horrible..I am so sorry for you. Men can be cruel sometimes. It just means its time to move on and look for something better. I wish you much luck!

hi_yella_1 45M

6/11/2005 11:08 am

well girl better you know this now than later... i feel for you though and i'm sure that someone will see you for who and what you are and accept you in all your GLORY ...

Much Respect

spainard309 51M

6/28/2005 6:02 pm

That guy was nothing but a total jerk. Someone as caring and sensual as you deserves way better. Best of luck to you.

lareina05 40F

7/1/2005 2:53 am

I'm so sorry he hurt you like that.

What I can say is try you damnedest not to match his actions. If he calls...respectfully decline, don't speak negatively about him to anyone (except your close friends when venting).

In time your true character will come to light and things will work out VERY WELL FOR YOU (WITHOUT him) because of it.
I know you're hurting but power up as soon as you can and do your thing...

It's summer time you'll be on your way in no time flat...

Have a great weekend, honey!

05007 42M/40F
4 posts
7/17/2005 4:18 pm

damn only way to say is thats some fucked up shit coming from a man i want to let you know we aren't all the same . but rest to sure he's not going to find anyone else as sweet as you were and he'll be beggin and then is the time you tell him kiss your ass

rm_pain_depice 34M
24 posts
8/5/2005 10:02 am

rm_speedo11000 56M
5 posts
9/17/2005 10:47 am

wow baby girl sorry 2 hear wot happened wot a right bastard know women deserve that kind of treatment i personally say let the phucker swill in his own my love leave him trust me he'll u see again after a year or 2 hell be begging 2 have u back in that time you've have moved on tnen u can tell the old dity jankgrow fe go eat s*** and drink piss water and if u accept him back your a bigger fool as he is

rm_speedo11000 56M
5 posts
9/17/2005 10:54 am

wow baby girl wot a right bastard leave him and go find a next love-stick if only i weren't 2 far over the atlantic i'd come over personally and service u tings leave the old dirty jankcrow for two years or more when he see u next ime round his tounge will be longing 2 have u back mind u if u take him back u will be a bigger fool than he(30031)

Neil992k5 35M
1 post
10/2/2005 5:06 pm

man it sucks to hear that I must say that not all men are like that. Move on eget better be better.

yardie_69 41M/34F
2 posts
10/9/2005 3:38 pm

i dont agree but i understand. just be careful and i wish u tha best

rm_jebiga1955 61M
1 post
10/11/2005 2:42 am

Better ever then never, be glad, that now you know. There is a new start, but do not be so sad, that you do not see that closing one door opened new one. Chose the life, it is a challenge.

devil_str8 56M
3 posts
11/23/2005 8:35 am

What a sick guy! Just dont bother. Understandably you are crushed. But then it is not the end of the world. There are many other humans who are open n frank n very caring. All you got to do is to keep your door open. You will the right person soon. Take care!!

slimnjuicy4eva 32

12/6/2005 11:43 am

Don't give up homegirl i'm sure u'll find happiness withot him

rm_bryan3161 41M

1/15/2006 6:42 am

honey I wont use u, U can take it on me,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,all on me and treat me the way u want ..............or what ever willl make u feel better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

jeremygooden 34M

3/14/2006 11:55 am

Baby sorry to hear!!

rm_ramage2u 48M
6 posts
4/13/2006 3:03 am

Some men are just real assholes. Damn I feel sorry for the bastard, although I don't know you I am sure he has lost someone magnificent.
I had a similar incident with an ex too. I was involved in an extra martial relationship. I was very much in love with this girl and she told me she felt the same. I eventuall ask my wife for a divorce this after being with this chick for over a year and when I told her I was getting a divorce so we can get married. She freaked out and told me she never loved me. I almost died. The world turned to mush I couldn't breathe. Now she pregnant for some guy who isn"t giving her the time of day and she is alway calling me to chat and wants me to vist. I avoid her I can't go through that emotional trauma againg.

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