how rude....  

purplefrog74 41M
10 posts
1/22/2006 5:35 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

how rude....

OK, I know I'm betting the dead horse here, but I wanted to put my 2 cents worth on the subject. Being a single male on this site or another site is bad enough, you are made to jump through hoops, assumptions are made about you with even asking. I get asked to join but I must leave right now and drive 45 minutes, and if I don't I lose out, there is no second chance. Is it too much to ask of others to at least be nice and respond with a no thank you? I have never NOT responded to an email and always have been respectful. I have been told I'm a nice guy, so why treat me (and the other guys on this site) any other way? I'm here to have fun and meet other people, we don't all have to jump in bed and have sex. I don't know about the rest of you guys but I am always looking for friends and I don't think you can ever have too many. I know this is an old topic, but thanks for letting me vent, I'll try to post a more current topic in the future. Good luck to all!!!

TheLilFondler 33F
2576 posts
1/22/2006 6:33 pm

well coming from a females point of view we cant always respond to every e-mail we get... there have been times when i have gotten 25 plus e-mails in one evening... do you know how long it takes to reply to that many e-mails? and also not all guys from this site are gentlemen! there are some real assholes on here... i know there are nice guys on here too but the number of assholes outweight the number of gentleman by far...

i lost my virginity years ago.....
but i still have the box.....

moonfire2u 69F
2602 posts
1/22/2006 6:35 pm

I'm a standard member...I have a limited amount of replies...I only answer the ones I am interested's not personal.

kind thoughts,

rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
1/22/2006 6:39 pm

the whole thing is fucked. Ladies: start recruiting other ladies to make it all work better

Shelly_Marie 43F

1/22/2006 6:42 pm

what moonfire said is true, I think. and how do you reply and say to someone that they dont look youre type without worry that that person will take offense and reply back again with a nasty or smartass comment...its happened to me i only respond to the ones that i am interested in, but i believe that i put in my autoreply that i will respond if i am interested, etc..

crazygurl2xx 56F

1/22/2006 8:03 pm

Hi there!

rm_sj365 55F
2414 posts
1/22/2006 9:41 pm

*sigh* its been said already, but when you get 50ish emails daily its hard to respond to them all..and as a standard memeber i am limited.
truth be told, the blogs really are a better way to connect. Most of the people i chat with in IM are fellow bloggers... hang in there, hang in here in the'll see. it does work.

purplefrog74 41M
2 posts
1/23/2006 9:38 pm

Now to add to this blog, I drove all the way across town last night to meet a couple, only to get inside the house and find that there was no couple only a dude, I got scammed big time! I must admit they had a pretty slick scam going, I was talking to her all the time, only to figure out the phone calls were being forwarded to another location. Needless to say I was pissed! What kills me is I am paying for this treatment!!!

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