Before You Die  

purejoy4fem 46F/44F
860 posts
5/21/2005 11:22 am

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Before You Die

What are the three things that you want to experience before you die? They don't have to be sexual in nature, unless that is what you really want.

This is a test that was sent to us the other day to measure our character. The original test was for 5 things, but between the two of us, we could only come up with three that would make us happy.

This is what we came up with:

1) motherhood

2) Traveling the world

3) Making the difference in one person's life (for the better of course).

What are the things that would fulfill you?

mnfun952 102M

5/21/2005 12:00 pm

Not necessarily sexual...but then again - not necessarily NOT sexual... (referring to #3 below).

1) Witness the development of my children's happy lives. (this I'm doing, so I feel pretty good about the progress and happiness of my own life)
2) To be able to connect with past friends and lovers and say I'm sorry (as needed) and thank them for the difference they've all made in my life.
3) Attend the Bloggers Convention - with all of you in attendance (yes, ALL of you).


rm_jayR63 59F
1884 posts
5/21/2005 12:17 pm

I will pass on the motherhood. No interest there.
I have considered this before and concluded I can die happy.
I do hope there is reincarnation, though. I'd like the chance to do things differently.

mygmyg 59M

5/21/2005 12:22 pm

1) the Lady,who is a partner, friend, confidant, to enjoy life with

2)Travel the world with #1

3)Work / Job that is meaningful and enjoyable

smileguyqc 53M

5/21/2005 12:47 pm

Not necessarily in order 1) write a song about the ones I love and sing it to them, 2) paint a picture (a nude portrait of Tea if she'd let me), 3) see my children independent and happy, 4) travel the world with Tea 5) hmmm, I'd like to build a boat, just a little one

Sorry that’s 5

mnfun952 102M

5/21/2005 12:51 pm

MYG... Your #3 is easier than you think... when you examine what you're passionate about and find some aspect of that passion that you can make money doing... you'll find that you never have to 'work' a day in your life. PS - welcome back, I haven't seen your posts in a while and it's good to see you're active again.


expatbrit49 62M

5/21/2005 2:18 pm

Travel into space
Get to see my kids sucessful and settled
Drive an F-1 car. (I will do that lst because thats probably what will kill me)

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

tat2dmale69 48M

5/21/2005 2:23 pm

1) Life where money is no object.

2) Seeing my loved ones succeed

3) Have sex with 2 beautiful lesbians. Oooops did I say that out loud?

elle_gant1 45F
78 posts
5/21/2005 2:37 pm

Motherhood would be at the top of my list

Watching my child grow up to be better than me

Catching the game-winning walk-off home run in game 7 of a Mets World Series Victory.

purejoy4fem 46F/44F
682 posts
5/21/2005 3:31 pm

tat2d, yes you did say that aloud and thanks for the compliment

expat, drive the F1 last so yo can do the other 2

smileguy, 5 is okay, some of us are more ambitious than others

mnfun, see u at the convention

bella_ 47F
4030 posts
5/21/2005 3:58 pm

Before I die I would want to experience
1. Love the way it is meant to be by definition and the time to nurture it.
2. I would want to experience motherhood, I want to know the feeling of looking at my child and knowing that he is a direct part of me.
3. Happiness over nothing in particular..just pure happiness.

rm_sheree73 43F
45 posts
5/21/2005 4:32 pm

I really love your blog ladies. Its always so down to earth and real. You pose some very comtemplative questions and situations here that can make one definitely think. This one in particular hits close to home, I'm not sure that I've thought about that question much lately and its definitely not one I want to lose sight of. Time seems to fly by so fast anymore and I find myself looking back saying "dang, where did this last 3 mos. (or 6mos, etc) go?" So in thinking of your question, here are my answers...

1) I want to experience true happiness. That can only come with finding my soulmate, the one only meant for me. Hopefully I'd be blessed to spend years with him/her, but if all I had was 24 hours or less I'd find a beautiful spot and spend every second looking at him/her and burning their face, smile, everything about them into my mind so they were the last thing I'd be thinking of and die with a smile.

2) I'd love to travel the world with him/her and see all the beautiful things God created and just let it all soak into my soul so I'd never forget the moments shared with the love of my life and how much better it was to experience with him/her at my side.

3) Win the lottery so I could pay off all debts of my parents, siblings and close family members. Make sure those that didnt have a home of their own got one, cars, etc. Anything that they needed I'd be sure they had. THen I'd set up college funds for all my little cousins and neice and nephew. I'd give portions of the money to my parents and siblings so they wouldnt have to ever worry about money again and struggling. All of it would go strictly to them, making sure some got invested wisely so that the money would keep coming their way.

Well thats my 3, and there is much more, but I'll spare you all the others.Thanks for reminding me ladies, not to let the time just fly by.


innocent19735 44M

5/21/2005 4:53 pm

Have an exotic woman ask for hand in marrige

Have exotic woman give me someone to say" THERE GO MY DADDY"

Watch exotic woman and offsprings live comfy-cozy

rm_WickedFemale 62F
401 posts
5/21/2005 7:57 pm

watched my children grow and now have successful relationships, careers and children of their own and I have traveled the world over my life time so my list has changed a lot....

1. I wish to see nations and people getting along and an international law against wars.......

2. That the hungry of this world has enough to eat.....

3. That we stop killing our earth before it is too late.....

These are my wishes to experience within my life time.

BBratty247 42M/39F

5/22/2005 6:02 am

Hmm....since I believe I've already found the perfect man, I'll go for finding a good woman too. What can I say, I'm greedy. I want to own a home, and see my children go to college. That should do it since I only get three choices.

purejoy4fem 46F/44F
682 posts
5/23/2005 9:08 am

It's never too late sexyfit

Barbiebunny69 43F

5/23/2005 9:53 am

1. Find a soulmate that values freedom
2. one more time att he beach at golden hour
3. Love affair that ends all love affairs


5/23/2005 3:01 pm

1. To have the joy of seeing my son(disabled)experience what alot of people take for granted in everyday life.
2. To write a book
3.As mnfun952 mentioned to have us ALL in together and have one heck of a face to face party

rm_bluegenes51 56M
245 posts
5/26/2005 10:24 am

Well.. I would be glad to help you out with 1.) and you be accomplishing 3.) at the same time... two birds with one stone..

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